During the summer me and this guy that i had been good friends with for a long time started dating. And then an incident where he believed i would be some different person around his friends made him decide he didnt want to date me anymore. Then not even a month later he got this girlfriend, and claims that wasn't the reason he didnt continue dating me. Now it being a couple of months, I have tried numerous times to get over him, and stop thinking about him, but I dont think its working too well since i still think about him all the time. The worst part is, I still want to be friends with him, but he just thinks that I still want a relationship with him and insists that we dont be friends anymore. All my friends tell me to just forget about him. I just don't know how. HELP!
2007-01-05 19:20:22 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its also hard to deal with because i see him almost everyday.
2007-01-05 19:25:09 · update #1
I'm in the same situation. My boyfriend broke up with me because of some stupid argument and he moved on. I wanted to stay friends and he told me no, in fear he and me falls for each other again. So here what I did... I showed him i was okay, i was glad he left. I made him realise he was the blame of all our arguments and he feels bad about it. He told me if he knew this would end like that, he wouldn't have broken up with me. So show him u're good as u are, and when he calms down. Talk to him as if nothing u are acquaintance. He might understand then. Good luck!
2007-01-05 19:39:50 · answer #1 · answered by r33 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can understand ur prob very much cause before one year i was suffering with this same prob.it is very tuff to forget anyone who is ur beloved,but just think one thing he i mean that guy -he lost a good lover not u it means he has to feel sad not u u just lost a simple frnd.he doesnt love u it means he didnt love u.if u love anyone u love him for life time thats why u r not forgeting him cause u still love him .n yes one thing is that we can change our name but we cant change our relation.just try to forget him i know this is very tuff but if u can love him u can forget him cause both are tuff things.he was not urs that was a butiful dream.do one thing take short time n go for holidays to another city for minimum one month.dont try to call him even dont give him a miss call.distroy all his memory i mean gifts,letter n whatever he gave u.brake all relations with him n with his frnds also,dont listen him or abt him also.cause most of time our frnds tell us abt our ex.this is six month course after six month u will surly feel change in ur life n yes dont make another boyfrnd to forget first one this is rong way .this is every thing i did in my bad days now m feeling very happy.but yes some time i miss her but i miss that love that butifuldays not that grl .well just do it n tell me the result .i ll wait .best of luck.
2007-01-05 20:06:45 · answer #2 · answered by mikin p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it's hard but you have no choice than to forget about him. Move on with your, there are other GOOD guys out there, pull yourself together and started another relationship and the thinking will stop naturally.
2007-01-05 19:44:33 · answer #3 · answered by imelo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just do things with your friends. If this guy will leave you at the drop of a hat and give you a lame excuse for it, do you really want him? You'd always be worried about him leaving again.
2007-01-05 19:26:52 · answer #4 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You like it or not you still have the feeling for your X, if the relationship was too intense then it never leaves you but never let your present know about your true feelings for your X
2007-01-05 19:32:46 · answer #5 · answered by Shirazi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
comprehend the style you experience yet circulate on look forward and additionally you will discover the marvelous man or woman for you :D Getting over somebody formulation I went with the aid of yet may well be distinctive for you pondering you're in school with them: convince your self it won't be able to happen (discover the reason why it won't be able to in all probability ever artwork out), that he's not your soulmate and that he's meant for somebody else (think of of him because of the fact the soulmate of somebody else). tell your self you do unlike him on each occasion emotions emerge (might desire to help shrink your emotions quickly). Detach your self from him (dissociate). discover your reasons for liking him and convince your self they are actually not as widespread or particular or comparable as you thought they have been (seek for his or her negatives fairly than their positives) and that they weren't meant for you and which you will discover that categorical same guy or woman it incredibly is nice for you and greater in somebody else. Bury it with thoughts and activities and friends and look forward.
2016-10-30 03:42:35 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LISTEN, IF HE DONT CARES 4 U THEN Y SHD U CARE 4 HIM. U BETTER KEEP UR SELF ENGAGED WITH UR OTHER FRNDS. THERE ARE ALSO MANY GOOD PEOPLE WHOM U CAN MAKE UR FRNDS OR LIFE PARTNER. SO DON'T U CARE ND FEEL 4HIM AND WASTE UR VALUABLE TIME.
2007-01-05 21:02:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal, but not necessarily healthy.
If he doesn't want a friendship, then be a friend and let him be.
2007-01-05 19:24:16 · answer #8 · answered by negrito con sabor 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way OK! Just forget!!
2007-01-05 20:23:07 · answer #9 · answered by mkm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, he sounds like he's been a jerk to you. Maybe you need to realize that.
2007-01-05 19:25:03 · answer #10 · answered by mj_indigo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋