I just keep on falling for the wrong people.Because of my orevious affais and disappointments i just dont hav energy anymore and I find it hard to trust me. I think a girl relationship would be bettta. Help
2007-01-05 19:04:48 · 6 answers · asked by Sonia 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I fail to understand why women (in general) never look at themselves and take care of themselves?? Beleive me when I say that guys do the same thing too! I must admit at this time, that I am an older guy, so maybe advice from a Father-type may help here.
Do you remember that one guy that sticks in your head, as being "The Man"?? My Dad told me this about "That" guy.
"A Boy becomes a Man when he can do what needs to be done, can make the differance for those he cares about. He's organized enough that he can spot a problem and then has the confidance and abilities to fix the problem. Most of all, he doesn't need to step on anyone to get the problem taken care of! He doesn't whine or complain about it, he simply does what needs to be done"
Now think about yourself for a moment!! You must Love yourself before you could ever Love someone else!! You need to know who you are and what you want in your Life first!! Everyone is going to have a failed relationship at some point in time, but if you are continually failing, there must be a common reason.
Try this on for size. How about you clean up your act and be who you think you are! Try dressing yourself up when you go out and ask your self, am I looking for Happiness?? A True Relationship?? A good guy?? In other words, "Raise the Bar" in the caliber of men you seek. Successful men prefer to be around Successful Women! There are alot of men that just want a Bimbo, slutty and Non-thinking. Make sure your NOT in that category!!!
Show some self-pride and it will resonate throughout the room!!
When my Wife enters a room, she has command of the room and people flock to her! All I do is sit back and beam with Pride and Happiness!! She is Trully a Lady!! Sorry guys, ya'll are stuck with second-best!! Ha Ha Ha!!
2007-01-05 21:48:03 · answer #1 · answered by dontwobears@sbcglobal.net 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so....sorry that you have had some bad experiences in relationships with men. My best advice is to consider taking time away from romantic relationships and focus on your well being. Go to counseling and work out your feelings and do something special just for yourself. Creative things usually help me feel better when I'm angry and/or depressed. Just know that you are worth far more than you realize and one day you will find someone who loves you for who you are, but first you must find your own value. wishing you the best-Lani
2007-01-05 19:28:55 · answer #2 · answered by The soprano 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be more optimistic and don't rush into any relationship. Enjoy your life and have as many friends as you want. When time ripes, the special someone that is meant for you will appear in your life. You will know it... ...
2007-01-05 19:10:11 · answer #3 · answered by Daffodil 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
women tend to be attracted to badboys & jerks, theres something about how they act. there are decent guys out there its just women usually just want them as friends. you might also be able to find a decent guy with a lil badboy in him too though but maybe you should figure out what you want first though
2007-01-05 19:19:37 · answer #4 · answered by dracula d 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's a real bummer. A very high majority of people don't have that problem. Ah well..Maybe nextime...
2007-01-05 19:12:24 · answer #5 · answered by BUM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a break from love and do something else your making mistakes that are effecting you
2007-01-05 19:07:46 · answer #6 · answered by Mimzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋