Please Any One Help? I beg you?

Question

Please give me encouragement.
I am decided to break up with my bf but every time he is there, I feel I can’t do it.

He is cheating on me every night, he is with different girl, and he’s with me during day but night he is with someone else. I keep accepting because I am truly in love with him. And I trust his word that I’m special and he cares for me.
I’m blinded because I truly love him.

But it hurts every night when midnight comes I know he pick ups a girl and he is with someone else.
Maybe he doesn’t care, but why is he doing that to me.

I want to break up with him but I want an advice, I want to make my mind decided. Finally. Can you help me,

I know I sound like a fool… but I am so in love I can’t think straight.

Answer 1

Show him you have self respect and kick his *** to the curb when he comes lurking around like an idiot , come on who deserves this kind of mistreatment really. You certainly aren't so needy as to settle for this so stand up for yourself and just stop it and find a decent guy . You can do it for sure ! Good luck , confidence is your friend.

Answer 2

Love can make you feel strong or weak. So, don't blame yourself! You deserve so much better than what you're getitng right now. Don't accept this kind of behavior from someone that is suppose to care and love you. You're worth more than this............Guys have learned to pull a girl's emotional strings to get them to go along with anything. Don't fall for it. Be strong and love yourself!!! If you're afraid that you can't break up with him in person, do it in a letter. Remember to state the reasons. Be firm and leave it at that.......Don't turn back, no matter what. If you do, then it's going to be the same cycle over and over because he'll know how to control you.

Answer 3

Being a fool is to stay with a guy who you know is cheating on you. You're thinking straight, you just need to prove to yourself that you can meet someone else better than him.
The longer you stay in this abusive relationship, the more it will damage you emotionally, and the harder it will be for you to get out.
It's 11:57pm, my time. You have 3 minutes to break it off before he picks up the other girl at midnight!
Go for it!

Answer 4

Honey you need to break up. If he says he cares then he won't cheat. The fact is it will never stop. Once a cheater always a cheater. You need to tell him he can't have you and others. If her cheats on you then he doesn't respect you. And please if you break up and he starts apologizing don't listen I made the mistake and got really hurt for the second time. you know I always say shame's on him if he fools you once but the shames on you if he fools you twice.
the best thing you can do is leave him.

I hope you make the right choice.

God Bless

Answer 5

When you see him just think about how mad he makes you when he is out with other girls and that you know he is cheating on you with and think about how much he has hurt you. And about how you deserve better.

I know that it will hurt but you're not in a healthy relationship and the more you try but don't succeed the more you'll hurt. The reason you can't do it is because psychologically you think about all the good times and about how much you love him but you need to dump him.

Good luck girl and find a better guy for you!

Answer 6

Princess, sometimes love just ain't enough.
You should never love anyone more than you love yourself.
This man is a **** Do you want to feel this way for the rest of your life? H*** NO.
How are you being able to tolerate this? It has to hurt like h***.
Take a deep breath and tell him to hit the road. You will find a good man who will appreciate you for the loving wonderful person you are. You have so much to give a relationship. Do not, I repeat, do not put up with this creep any longer.

Answer 7

Been there done that and you just need to break it off because honey if he's picking up girls like that no telling what you'll end up with sooner or later. There are too many diseases out here to put up with that type of mess. And yes love is blind but you're not you see and know what he's doing and as long as you let him continue to walk over you he's going to do just that because your making it really easy for him to do. Walk away and let him see that you're stronger than what he thinks you are because right now he knows he can do anything to you and you're still gonna be there for him. I know it hurts and my heart goes out to you because i know exactly how you feel but if you don't have respect for yourself and leave him at this point he's not gonna have any respect for you because your allowing him to do this to you.

Answer 8

im guessing u are a teenager? maybe 14 or 15? i hope u are, because if not, u are very naive. not to appear harsh, but how can u love someone who hows no respect at all for u? by staying with him, u send out the signal that u too have no respect for yourself.

let me explain to u a man's natural mentality. males are born with an innate need to have sex with as many females as possible, because the more sex he has, the more chances there are for his genes to continue survive, in his offspring. now in our society, most women, like urself, do not appreciate a boyfriend who goes around sleeping with other girls. thus, males must learn to stay committed to one woman if he cares for her and values the relationship.

it is difficult enough for us males to suppress the sexual desire for other women when in a relationship. however, MEN are able to do this because we realize that a real relationship takes committment and care to work. BOYS on the other hand cannot grasp this idea and so they go around sleeping with many girls other than the girlfriend, and then they probably brag about it to their immature friends. and having a girlfriend like u, who does nothing about his behavior, who does not respect herself will only push him farther away and cause him to stay unfaithful. so confront him about it or walk away. don't look back. it's not worth it.

this is from a guy's perspective in case u were wondering. and i hope it helps. u deserve better. good luck to u.

Answer 9

Baby I know how you feel. If you were truly special to this boy he wouldn't be out with other girls. I have been in your shoes before. I loved a boy who treated me so badly. You need to break up with him. I know it's scary to be alone and to let go of someone you love but I guarantee that the pain of breaking up with him will not be as bad as what you go through staying with him. You already know what you need to do and what you should do...that's why you asked this question. Sometimes people ask questions they already know the answer to hoping that someone will tell them what they want to hear. You know this answer already. Good luck

Answer 10

Actually, being "blind", and giving up your self-respect to be with someone, are not the signs of "true love", but rather of an infatuation. True love is built on trust and respect - your relationship isn't. Please break up with him a.s.a.p. It's not gonna be easy - it's never easy to leave the one we're infatuated with; but you will feel better eventually, and will be so much happier in the long run. Talk to a trusted friend, get someone to support you in your decision. It's easier to go through with it when you have a shoulder to cry on. Good luck.