What should I do?

Question

I like this guy who I met last year so much. He's from another country. I don't talk to him much. I email him every once in a while but that's about it. He takes days to reply back and I dont know what he feels about me. The thing is I know he has a lot of respect for me and is very helpful. I dont know if its going to ruin anythign between us if I tell him how I feel. I have a job offer in his country and will be moving there soon. Should I wait till I see him? I check my email like 20 times a day to see if he emailed and get very excited every time I see his mail. What should I do? What should I tell him? Why is telling someone how you feel so hard?

Answer 1

Pls have a open and frank discussion with him. Then you decide about moving to his country to get the job offer

Be brave and open minded.

Answer 2

You R living in a fantasy world. Have U ever SEEN him? Has he sent U a pic? He might even be married for all you know!! Many guys 'cheat' with online romances.

Okay let's say how you feel is true. You have no idea how he feels do you? Are you taking this job just because of him? Or do you want to try living in the country he's from cause you really want to?

Would you want to be there if he wasn't in the picture?

All the above being said; Do not tell him your feelings ... cause U won't know waht they REALLY are until you meet and spend some time with him. But I would let him know you are planning to get a job in his country. See how he reacts and what he says. If he offers to show you around and get you acclimated to the new surroundings, then at least you know he has an interest in seeing you once you arrive.

Then take it from there. But don't reveal your feelings, until you are sure of him and his character, and know how he feel about you!!

Answer 3

Don't tell him...move there, hang out with him and drop subtle hints, if anything. I know its hard to hold back, but men like to chase, it's in their DNA. They are born hunters, really. Men like women to chase them but for a different type of relationship than what u are wanting from this guy. Take my word for it... when I finally got this through my head, I met my husband and the rest is history.

Best of luck with the guy and your move!