I've finally found the type of guy the i have always invisioned myself with. we have fun together, share the same interests, and completely love each other deeply. so about two months ago he asked me to marry him and i said yes. then about a week and a half later he had went out of town and a friend had invited me over to his house. somewhere in between getting high (i know drugs are bad but i cant help it) and my leaving his house we had kissed...i eventually told my guy about it and of course he was upset but he forgave me. but to tell you the truth that kiss has made me question if i should even be marrying him. my friend and i have liked and loved each other way before i even met him and plus we have so much more in common...i'm so confused right now...i don't know what to do...
2007-01-05 18:34:19 · 8 answers · asked by rez gurl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would choose the guy that i love. When everything else false apart you would always have a friend. Its not a matter of how long you have known someone or which one of them you know first. I think the most important is which one you really cant live without the rest of your life. Marry the guy who asked you to marry him. Because he is seriously thinking of a future together.
2007-01-05 18:42:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anne H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depending on how old you are, you sound young to me, you should explore before you settle. These feelings you are experiencing are insecurites. If you would rather look around and test the waters.. you should not be marrying this guy. If he feels confident enough to settle with you, and he loves you, he'll wait until you aren't confused.
You should talk about this with your guy if you feel as though you might be having feelings for another. Hopefully he will understand because true love waits..
2007-01-05 18:39:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you're doing drugs...it doesn't sound like you are mature enough to make any sort of decisions like marriage etc. that might change your decision! Grow up first, then re-look at things. Oh, and if both do drugs...then I would choose neither!
2007-01-05 18:37:59 · answer #3 · answered by claireandmouse 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd chose the friend. Romantic relationships can fall apart easily, but you'll always have your friends.
2007-01-05 18:36:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anton Mathew 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
World is full of comparision. Mind has to be settled for satisfaction.
2007-01-05 18:39:40 · answer #5 · answered by thinkpose 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your to stoned to know what your doing, don't marry anyone til you go to rehab. Please I know from experiance.
2007-01-05 18:39:58 · answer #6 · answered by livlafluv 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just follow your heart :) wh0 d0 you thnk makes you happy?..
2007-01-05 18:41:38 · answer #7 · answered by lovehurts 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your friend. because you two go way back :-].
2007-01-05 18:38:04 · answer #8 · answered by prEppy_rOxy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋