um i dont know but i dont feel i have friends i dont know what to talk about in a conversation wouldd u tell me how could i do it and i really tend to ''dont like people'' i always look at what they have wrong what i dont like about them i know that nobody is perfect but i really would want some help on that!!
2007-01-05 18:08:34 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
You need to give yourself a fresh start. Everytime you start to have negative feelings about a person, remember that you don't feel like you have any friends to begin with. This doesn't mean to blindly make friends with just anyone...you can still be selective. Be in a situation with people that would be most like you. IE: if you are a craft person, go to a craft store or craft fair and meet people with the same hobby. Simply start the conversation by, "This is pretty cool, isn't it?" Judging from their answers you should know enough to whether you want to continue the conversation. Maintain eye contact, smile and be pleasant. These are things that will make a person feel comfortable around you. Perhaps the way you feel about people now is due to how you're raised and you need to understand why you are that way. At that point, subtle changes will make life easier for you. Good luck!
2007-01-06 04:32:32 · answer #1 · answered by daff73 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i was like that but i realised that i am not perfect so why should i judge others i mean if i knew people were judging me and talking about me i would probably go and abuse them but you just have to look at people like you would look at clothes you get as a gift you might not like them at the start but you could get use to it and just think if you stop being so judgemental well you could have more friends than you ever would have thought you had and then you wouldnt be friendless anymore go out and party and find people that have the same interest as you even if they are not the most perfect friend at least you would have some
2007-01-05 18:19:21 · answer #2 · answered by loza 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well 1st it seems like the easiest thing to do,but making friends are HARD.Meanwhile making aquaintances sre much easy,and that a major difference.Be yourself is the solution,eventually you'll find some1 you have similarities with.No need to rush,rush friendships are usually easil dissolved.Take your time to analise some ppl and see who seems most approachable.Better yet get involved in extra-curriculum activities because its a must that you'lll have to display team work.Therefore you'll be able to interact with other people,evetually you wont even realise you were on a search of finding friends.
2007-01-05 18:20:26 · answer #3 · answered by Jamaicanboi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know you that well to tell you what you are doing wrong. You are looking for an unbais answer, so you are not going to find the correct one. Ask people who know you. Hang in there, life gets better. I don't know how old you are? Are you in middle school, high school, or older? If you are in middle school, kids are shallow jerks in middle school. From there it should slowly get better.
2007-01-05 18:24:56 · answer #4 · answered by hey, be a decent human being 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well people can pick up on that. I am not trying to be mean, but you have some deep down problems that you really need to get help with. Until you get yourself healed you will continue to have these problems.
2007-01-05 19:54:47 · answer #5 · answered by tnbadbunny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just focus on making and keeping one friend at first. sometimes just being a good listener is more important in a conversation than having witty things to say.
2007-01-05 18:14:01 · answer #6 · answered by LO! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All i can say is, think positively about others instead of the negative, it helps alot when it comes to making friends.
2007-01-05 18:27:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must like yourself to have friends - the problem may be with how you see yourself.
2007-01-05 18:16:11 · answer #8 · answered by whitney 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Once you develop boobs, you'll have more friends than you want.
2007-01-05 18:26:39 · answer #9 · answered by BUM 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋