I caught my 6 year old making my baby suck on his peepee. I have grounded him talked to him and am now at a loss. He says he saw that at his grandpa's on a cartoon. He also said he knew that it was wrong. But he does not feel guilty for doing it and is mad that his toys all got put up and that he can't play with them. Should I take him to councling??? What are my options I don't want him to think that he can get away with this behavior. I asked my mom and she said this is typical of little boys is this true? HELP!!!!
2007-01-05 17:20:27 · 8 answers · asked by Just Me 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Grade-Schooler
No, this is not typical of a 6 year old. You need to have a serious talk to his grandpa, and decide if you really want your son to see him. I wouldn't go for councilling. If he has seen it on TV then obviously he thinks there is nothing wrong with it, so he doesn't see why he is being punished. It is the grandpas fault, not your sons. He's just a little boy, who doesn't know everything thats right and wrong
2007-01-05 17:31:52 · answer #1 · answered by sharkgirl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to Grandpa and find out what happened here and maybe no more trips over their if you do not get a straight answer. Then yes go to counciling. This can evolve into a dangerous situation if this is not fixed right away. You do not want to be the mother of a rapist when he is an adult. It is very possible that your child is being harmed. Sexually abuse children and teens will lash out on other kids
2007-01-06 05:33:39 · answer #2 · answered by I hate stupid ppl like you 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm sorry, but I would take him to counseling just to be on the safe side. Yes, I have heard of children masturbating at an early age but never doing things like that so young. You need to talk to this boy's Grandpa as well. Good luck to you.
2007-01-06 02:37:32 · answer #3 · answered by jerkygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't take his toys away he didn't know what he was doing was wrong. he seen it at grandpa's so I would advise supervised visits and not letting him stay the night. as for seeing a counsler I would advise in doing so. If it does come out in counseling that grandpa did do something under law the therapist does have to notify the police.
2007-01-06 07:23:18 · answer #4 · answered by diana h 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, if this is an honest question...this is NOT typical behavior.
Running around naked,inspecting his parts or even playing with himself are all things that can be normal for a 6 years, what you are talking about it....VERY WRONG.
If your child said he saw this at grampa's house, then you need to stop him from going.
You also need to take your son to a psychiatrist A.S.A.P!
2007-01-06 01:26:58 · answer #5 · answered by Dream 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Typical?? Um...no. Obviously no. I would keep his toys away from him for a few days & yes, possibly put him in couseling. Even if it's only for a few weeks, just to make sure he is on the right track.
2007-01-06 01:23:11 · answer #6 · answered by IMHO 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy "Positive Discipline for Preschoolers" by Jane Nelsen and learn how to bring up a child.
http://positivediscipline.com/
2007-01-06 02:53:58 · answer #7 · answered by Livia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i;d say no more trips to Grandpa's. and get him to a counselor to find out what's going on. I'd be very concerned. This is not normal behaviour.
2007-01-06 02:26:14 · answer #8 · answered by Ella727 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋