1 or 2? Do you have a limit?
2007-01-05 16:56:59 · 9 answers · asked by Angela 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Depends on how old you are, how old the kids are, and how much you know about the father of the kids. I'd say, if you love the girl enough, than her being a mother should not change how you feel. Every kid needs a dad, so maybe you're the guy for the job, or maybe not. Depends on the answers to the questions above.
2007-01-05 17:00:20 · answer #1 · answered by Spiderman 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I suppose you're talking about single mothers, even though you didn't exactly specify. I won't consider dating a woman with kids before I turn about 35, unless perhaps she's a widow and an awesome person. I, along with most single guys who don't have children, don't want to date women with children. So my limit is zero for all practical purposes. There could possibly be exceptions, but I won't go into those.
What's so hard about not having children before getting into a stable marriage? It's not rocket science. And don't try to generalize about men either to say that we're all dogs (or whatever the man-haters are saying these days). If you got with some chump and got knocked up, that's your fault and his. Not all men are that way, and you probably rejected some decent guys to be with a loser who didn't care about more than sex anyway. I'm not trying to be mean, but I've seen way too much of that these days and it's very annoying sometimes. Some guys will date you, but I think you might initially have some trouble finding guys who will. The older you get, the better your chances are. I think you would have better luck with single fathers as well. Good night!
2007-01-06 01:18:00 · answer #2 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I prefer women with kids because they are more mature and responsible. I think 4 would be the limit but it doesn't really matter how many. As long as I love the woman and her kids, and they love me back, that is all I would want.
2007-01-06 01:03:34 · answer #3 · answered by curtf1964 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i've decided to avoid them now, because i don't want kids in the first place
also you have to ask why they didn't have kids with a good man who they were married to. in all honesty, it's a bad sign. chances are they made the most important decision of their life with a total jerk.
then there's the "need a baby daddy" factor. the women are looking for a daddy, not just a husband and it depends on if the guy can deal with that.
2007-01-06 00:59:11 · answer #4 · answered by some_one1234 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be a bit worried about any man that was too eager to love some other mans kids. Doesn't mean that men don't want to date a woman with kids but she should understand him not wanting to dive right into being a dad. Men want to date a woman not her brood but should he fall in love with her, then he will learn to love the kids in time.
2007-01-06 01:10:18 · answer #5 · answered by punkvixen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say at this point in my life 2 would be my limit.
2007-01-06 00:59:47 · answer #6 · answered by sigmapi_razz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If given the opportunity, I like to think I could be a good father to them. I once tried to get closer to a woman who had two kids, but apparently she was still very involved with her estranged husband. No thanks. Too much of a mess to have to deal with. :P
2007-01-06 01:00:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My cousin has 5 and has a boyfriend who takes care of all of them!
2007-01-06 00:59:31 · answer #8 · answered by sexy sasha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They prefer none.
They will accept one.
With all things there are exceptions but this is the general rule
2007-01-06 01:01:32 · answer #9 · answered by Sweetgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋