ok, so he just moved last year and they have been best friends since like kindergarden but like everytime he comes down and i've seen him, he like acts like he really doesnt like me. i dont know what to do because it is his best friend but its just confusing......
2007-01-05 16:55:24 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask your boyfriend about it. and if that is the case that the friend doesn't like you, the your man needs to find out why and confront him on it.... especially if it's not anything justifiable to dislike you for in the first place, which is probably the case!!! Some 'bestfriends' get jealous of their friends significant other, because their attention is now absorbed by the relationship and not so much the friendship as much.... it's really petty and immature, but all too common.....
2007-01-05 17:01:44 · answer #1 · answered by Brutally Honest 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a topic you should talk with you boyfriend about. I don't think he would want you to be sad when you come to visit him. This might be a sign you both need more alone time verses his friend tagging along as the third wheel.
2007-01-05 17:00:34 · answer #2 · answered by jewelsthomas 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cause he likes u, and if he gets close to u then he is going to like u even more, so with that he is acting like he doesnt like u but its good cause u dont want to get caught up in all that stuff. well be true to ur man and just let his bestfriend be a ***. he will get over it, and if u want him to be friends with u bring a hot friend with u so they can meet:)
2007-01-05 17:04:35 · answer #3 · answered by quikblue11 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Treat him with kindness anyway because your dating your boyfriend not his friend so be nice to him and maybe that will just eat him up enough to come around. Good Luck!
2007-01-05 16:58:51 · answer #4 · answered by 2sweet4u 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
y wud u mind if ur boyfriend's best friend hates u? look,, the only thing u shud care about is whether ur boyfriend likes u or not.. and i guess of course he does... then it doesnt matter whether ur bf's best friend likes u.. r u like scared or sumting that ur bf's best friend is gona go tell ur bf bad things about u? i think u shudnt care about ur bf's best friend.. just ignore him nd concentrate on ur relationship... i mean just act as if u dont care abt ur bf's best friend..
2007-01-05 17:07:26 · answer #5 · answered by caramush 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you I would just ask him why he doesn't like you. Perhaps he thinks that you came between him and his best friend. Could he be gay but in the closet?? If it's so then he feels that he should be in your place. Just ask him!!!
2007-01-05 17:02:10 · answer #6 · answered by HSB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is just being childish, but another theory is that he might not like you all that much, not everyone is going to like us in life, but you will still be okay, maybe his life is messed up right now. It just always sucks when it is someone you cant get rid of
2007-01-05 16:57:47 · answer #7 · answered by Miss Green 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who cares.... if it was a gurl there could be a jealousy or even feeling factor but hos Best Friend is a GUY so you are lucky dont sweat about it just chill
2007-01-05 16:58:13 · answer #8 · answered by Michelle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend is clearly disrespecting you in front of his friend, and you should not be tolerating that at all. You should ask your boyfriend if he likes you and if he says yes you demand that he respect you at all times.
2007-01-05 17:01:58 · answer #9 · answered by mia w 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might think you are coming in between him and his friend(your boyfriend).
Unless he says or does something that is rude, I would just be nice to him and not worry about it.
2007-01-05 17:01:15 · answer #10 · answered by ♥♥ Nikki ♥♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋