My x-boy friend is still in love with me but I dumped him months ago, I don't think I like him the same way he likes me, what should I do?
to give you people advice, to much good luck can just lead to bad luck.
2007-01-05 16:52:45 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You dont have the same feelings so tell him that you dont think you should start the relationship back up again. Make it clear to him how you feel so you aren't leading him on to believe that there might be another shot with you again. My ex did that to me and it hurt just as much as when we broke up.
So clarify your feelings with him and just either move on or be friends.
2007-01-05 16:56:09 · answer #1 · answered by J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him exactly why you dont feel the same way. The last thing you want to do is leave him with unanswered questions because he will bug you even more LOL I say be honest tell him why and tell him politely not to bother you also be friends and help him find a women of a girl that way it makes the transition easier for him and he will move on.
2007-01-05 16:56:10 · answer #2 · answered by ltcharles1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be Clear. State your feelings or lack of. Acknowledge the other person's feelings. State what you want (i.e. friendship or to no longer see eachother). Practice until you feel you can be clear and concise without being hurtful or unkind.
Example "John I no longer want to date you. I understand that you still believe you are inlove with me. I hope that you can move beyond that because I no longer want to be your girlfriend. I've decided it is best for me if I no longer see you."
2007-01-05 16:57:42 · answer #3 · answered by Virginia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-06 12:38:40 · answer #4 · answered by duchane 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you don't love him back then what I would do is move on there is always fish in the sea
2007-01-05 16:56:08 · answer #5 · answered by Naja 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i broke up wth my ex-gf 3moths ago, and i found she still loves me. what i'm doing is keep certain distance with her. my advice
: Don't talk to him too often, don't let him think you might wanna back together.
2007-01-05 17:00:07 · answer #6 · answered by Martin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't think you like him, then don't. follow your heart. being with him in the state you're in would only hurt him more and make you feel guilty and regretful. all the best. :)
2007-01-05 16:54:47 · answer #7 · answered by Melody 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you just want to be friends and you're not ready for a boyfriend right now
2007-01-05 16:55:06 · answer #8 · answered by dumbxblondee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He will get over it eventually.
2007-01-05 16:54:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel.
2007-01-05 16:55:04 · answer #10 · answered by mommy333 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋