okay, i have a boyfriend, but then one of my really close guy friends came back from a diff. state after about 3 years, and i'm a little more than attracted to him...and a little more than 10 people say that he likes me, i asked my boyfriend if that was okay with him, and he said as long as i dont like him back, but the problem is i sorta do, but i dont want to tell my bf that, it might complicate things if i do. what should i do? i'm torn between to dear friends! <3 = (
2007-01-05 16:50:50 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well..you should really think about which of the two you really like because you are weaving a really tangled web so...just tell everyone the truth and if you really like the other guy tell your boyfriend that before your relationship gets deeper.
2007-01-05 16:53:46 · answer #1 · answered by Ladie Alicia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your boyfriend is levelheaded and trusting enough to not be jealous, the least you can do is be honest with him.
Do you want to be with your boyfriend? It's either yes or no. Do you want to be with this other guy, or is it only because he's something new and he's attracted to you?
Sit down and really think about it. You don't want to hurt your boyfriend. You obviously don't. You owe it to him to be honest. Even if honest is "I don't know what I want, and until I do, I don't want to hurt you by not being the girlfriend you deserve." And if he asks if it's because the other guy, for the love of Peter, don't lie and say it's not. Because it obviously would be. He'll appreciate your honesty in the long run, and it'll be the only thing that is going to give you a chance of getting back with him if that is what you decide you want.
I hope things work out! You can't have them both, you know.
2007-01-06 01:12:03 · answer #2 · answered by a dear abbey of sorts 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, why would you tell your boyfriend someone likes you? You're asking for trouble there. Second of all, would you like it if your boyfriend kinda liked someone and you had no idea? You should probably stop telling your boyfriend things about other guys. It really doesn't serve a purpose except to hurt his feelings and unless that's what you want to do, I suggest you drop it. Either you commit yourself to your boyfriend 100% or dump him and go after this other guy. You can't have them both and if you like someone other than you're boyfriend, you're basically lying to your bf and I'm pretty sure you wouldn't want your boyfriend doing that to you.
2007-01-06 00:56:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
A solution might be to wait and see...A patient person is difficult to find, but they are the ones who know when and how to act well. My advice is to wait a while to see if any feelings change. If after a while you feel less for one you may want to check again with the other. Great and terrific things come to those who wait and think before acting.
2007-01-06 00:55:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it really sound like you need to take a break from your boyfriend
because if you are having feeling for someone else that not
goodl,and for you to ask your man if it all right say it all. time
to leave them both along until you fiqure out what you want
right now you dont have a clue.
2007-01-06 00:55:59 · answer #5 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At your age, you have got to decide. Be true to your friends or gain a reputation as a S L U T.
2007-01-06 00:56:08 · answer #6 · answered by Old guy 124 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont do nuttin.its nuthin worse than u tellin yo bf something like dat and den findin out l8ta dat yo friend is a jack a$$. KEEP YO MOUTH SHUT AND JUST OBSERVE!
2007-01-06 00:54:33 · answer #7 · answered by bad_sexy_ghetto1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like you're not ready to be in a serious relationship b/c you're still looking.it's best to use your head. Take some time from your bf before someone gets hurt...including yourself. thats just my opinion. hope you know whats best for u.
2007-01-06 00:59:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm... it might be hard but i think you should break up with your boyfriend because if you like another guy then it isn't really fair to him if you still go out with him. if your boyfriend felt that way about another girl and not you would you still want to go out with him? :/ good luck!
2007-01-06 00:53:51 · answer #9 · answered by dumbxblondee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess you have to choose your current boyfriend or that close friend of yours... don't waste your current bf life of being with you good luck and i hope you made the right choice
2007-01-06 00:54:50 · answer #10 · answered by anna_banana♥LALakers. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋