I have done everything but sex, dated, but havent been able to really commit to a relationship, ive been told that i come off as a friend immediately upon meeting women. I consider myself fairly attractive, im not overweight and i dress rather nicely. I was a salesman so i know i have proper social skills. How can i change this? Is this normal at all? Any advice is appreciated.
2007-01-05 16:15:43 · 15 answers · asked by Jape 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There is nothing wrong with being virgin at that age. You're young, man. Just dont do anything stupid, when I was a virgin I felt pushed sometimes by friends to sleep with girls at random just because "im a man, and I have to", but that's stupid.You'll do it when your time comes.
2007-01-05 16:27:16 · answer #1 · answered by IL_TopChef 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your selling somthing do you ever forget to take the money?
if youve done everything else your just not finishing. if you are making out for a little bit put your hand up the girls shirt after grabing a a couple feels try to take the shirt off after the shirt is off for a min make it so you are either on top of her or she is on to of you keep making out but add some grinding. then unbutton her pants remove pants but not panties yet. make sur you are kissing her all over . use your hand for a little while the panties are still on. once she is good and wet slide down and take her panties off. now either eat or keep using your hand put dont stay all day. move back up to kiss he again she will prolly just lean back at that point. that when you get the tip wet and put it in slow
2007-01-05 16:34:17 · answer #2 · answered by G-diddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im going to take a guess and say your probably too nice to all the women you know. Whatever, they want you give it to them or do a bunch of favors for them. Im not not saying you can't be nice girls but don't be nice to a girl if you like her. If you like a girl sometimes you just have to say no because they are usually testing you to see how you will stand up to them. You're probably considered a friend because you like to listen to their problems. Don't stay and listen to their issues unless you only like them as a friend. If you like a girl and listen whenever she has a problem, your going to be in the friends zone.
2007-01-05 16:24:35 · answer #3 · answered by jason j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey it happens. you got to learn to play hard to get; be unpredictable; be uninterested some of the time; give them a lot of space; avoid long phone calls; hang out at night, not the day; don't talk about other girls; don't talk about yourself unless she ask; let her blab about herself; pretend to listen; silence is bliss; you might be too funny, sometimes that hurts you; don't be so anxious to get laid; don't call her til she calls you; get her drunk; get her to do things she never thought she would do; don't hang out with her plus her friends; don't do lunch;
let her know she's attractive, but don't over do it; don't be goofy; never talk about relationships, make her think that you're only out for friendship and watch how fast she pursues a relationship; don't talk about other girls being interested, instead show her by talking to other girls when you're both at a club; don't spend too much money on her, have her pay the tab at dinner or split the check with her;
Last but not the least, don't try to solve her problems, or even listen to her problems -- I've made this mistake several times.
2007-01-05 16:19:24 · answer #4 · answered by Petarded 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep yourself out there! I know tons of guys your age that haven't found the right girl - and they are the most perfect, wonderful, best personality, hottest guys on earth! You sound like a nice guy so don't give up! Do more things you like - ie if you like rockclimbing, go rockclimbing with a big group. More realistic? running. even more realistic? VOLUNTEER :) lots of nice girls do that.
hope this helps!!
p.s. dont try too hard, it'll come to you
2007-01-05 16:22:32 · answer #5 · answered by ashley r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol. Its ok. Its best not to rush into it. Take this time to know what you want in a woman and in a relationship. Its ok, I'm 20 too and havent' been in a relationship and if I can say so myself, I so damn hot, lol. People think that I don't like guys when i say it cuz they can't believe it. Its ok. There's no need to rush things.
2007-01-05 16:21:03 · answer #6 · answered by beautifulinsideandoutinjc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm the same way, man. I've never had a boyfriend, but i'm not letting that stop me - I want a relationship to find ME, not go out and search for one.
2007-01-05 16:18:49 · answer #7 · answered by Raine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get past the shy thing and hold her hand to start. Don't be afraid to act on impulse. If it's not the right thing at the time you will know, and if it is.....yabba dabba do, your on your way!
2007-01-05 16:20:15 · answer #8 · answered by Psychic Sk8r 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun , you are only 20 , take you time , you have your whole life ahead of you .
2007-01-05 16:21:01 · answer #9 · answered by christina3661@yahoo.com 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit being a p-ussy, and start being the apha male women love
2007-01-05 16:18:30 · answer #10 · answered by BadBoy L 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋