how can i stop girls from being atrracted to me. How do I reject a girl without hearting her feelings? i need advise
2007-01-05 16:10:32 · 17 answers · asked by DIME 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell her your intersted in your best friends brother. That should just about do the trick.
BTW spell check probably would have you use the word hurting.
2007-01-05 16:12:24 · answer #1 · answered by Rowdy Yayhoot 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
As a girl who has been rejected numerous times, PLEASE do not say this line: "You are a nice girl, but I don't like you that way, I'm sorry" or "You are more like a sister to me." Each time, some guy has told me this. If you say these lines, the girl will think that something is wrong with her and look at courtesy and kindness as a negative thing. Perhaps, you should make a list of single people that you know and set the girl up with them. Sometimes, you have to lie and say that you have a girlfriend. Some girls have more fragile hearts than others. Just say to her, "Look, you are great and wonderful, plus you're beautiful, but you wouldn't be happy with me. I don't have all the love in my heart to love somebody like you. Keep looking and you'll find Mr. Right or Mr. Near Right". Don't touch her at all when speaking because that might give her the wrong idea. Get a girlfriend as quickly as ypu can and use her as an excuse. Other than that, congrats on being a catch!
2007-01-05 16:18:19 · answer #2 · answered by Walking Contradiction 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't consider it rejection. Consider it selection. If you don't feel she is the one for you to be your life long companion, friend, lover, wife, mother to your children, and confidante, simply tell her what character traits you find desirable in her and say that you are sure she will find a man her equal but that you don't think you are that man. That's a "No" with kindness.
If you stop girls from being attracted to you, that will leave..we won't go there. This isn't in THAT section so I'm going to assume you're on an ego trip here. Don't you worry, if you have a bad attitude or get old, you will lose your charms, at least to the women who really matter. If you have character, you will not run out of options for the day you feel mature enough to settle down in marriage. Use wisdom and you will be a great success I'm sure!
2007-01-05 16:32:35 · answer #3 · answered by Lovin' Mary's Lamb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-01 21:47:58 · answer #4 · answered by hertling 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being hurt is inevitable.all you have to do is be honest with your feeling.tell her you dont feel the same way with her and it would be unfair if you too have a relationship because you dont like her the way she likes you..spend less time with her so she wont fall for you deeply.dont worry,she'll get over the rejection.. ;)
2007-01-05 17:09:27 · answer #5 · answered by ♥heartbreaker♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if some one really likes you i dnt think u can avoid not hurtin their feelings. But the only thing i would say is to be up front with her meaing let her know your not feelin her like shes feeling you. Being lied to hurts even more.
2007-01-05 16:13:38 · answer #6 · answered by content 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell her the truth about your feelings. It is more hurtful if you tell her a lie, and she will find out the truth later. In other words, not every lid will fit on every pot:-)
2007-01-05 16:15:17 · answer #7 · answered by HSB 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell them u aren't looking at the moment or you like them better as a friend and u don't want to ruin that
2007-01-05 16:11:54 · answer #8 · answered by Blondie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you can. Rejection always hurts. Just be honest and let her down easy.
2007-01-05 16:13:03 · answer #9 · answered by Dianne 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her there's always been a girl in your heart, and you can't accept any other girl.
2007-01-05 16:14:08 · answer #10 · answered by isabelleZ 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋