you are the cheerleaders and you have to cook and clean, and you are always secondary, why?
2007-01-05 16:08:53 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Do you realize the power you actually possess?
2007-01-05 16:10:04 · update #1
at a young age you are bred to be the cheerleaders, like even at a high school football game
2007-01-05 16:12:21 · update #2
There aren't male cheerleaders at the WNBA games because there hasn't been a push for them by those who watch the games.
My existence doesn't revolve around that of the men in my life. I'm certainly not secondary! Funnily enough, I was a cheerleader in high school, but I do not and have not ever felt as though my primary worth was that of a support unit for the needy men. I haven't been trained to think that, either. I enjoy cooking and cleaning; I don't *have* to do either, beyond what is necessary for my own well-being. I don't really understand why you are so concerned, here...
2007-01-05 16:19:24 · answer #1 · answered by N 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Women are NOT secondary, but men see it this way. That's actually where women have the control. We've got you thinking you have it, but..............Behind every man, there's a woman who secretly calls the shots! BTW, household chores are SHARED at my house. My husband and I both work full time jobs, so we BOTH do the house work!
EDIT
"Even during woman's creation, God said, I will make a "help mate" comparable to you, so woman are intended to be support for men, that is a natural and good thing that the feminists have twisted and perverted into being second-class citizens."
Honey it wasn't feminists that twisted this to begin with. Men have twisted it since the beginning of time. Without the women who fought for our rights, we wouldn't be able to even VOTE! Remember that while many women may take it too far today, that it wasn't women who started it, it was men, and their desire to be in control.
2007-01-06 00:23:55 · answer #2 · answered by Amanda D 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You make a good point....I hope i dont offend the ladies out there but i think it is because of a biological need by women to need to feel protected. Men are protector/providers through natural selection and women are care givers. And as such most women perfer to be secondary...
And when you think about it, since women have to bare the brunt of child birth it only makes mroe sense to have a "primary" protector to be on the look out for dangers while she (with her baby) stays in the background....In the end, he fights to protect her so she and the baby can survive...If he dies during the process then so be it, there are plenty of other men out there to protect her....
2007-01-06 00:11:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask this question in this category and you will get a religious answer...
In the book of Genesis, the consequences of Eve's sin is spelled out for her, "and your desire will be for your husband, and he shall rule over you."
That is the consequence of woman's sin, that she will be forever cursed to be focused on men, spending her time and energy on how to please them and because of this man shall rule over her. We dress for them, fight for them, we live our lives focused on what the next man will say or do. Instead she should focus on God, and how to please Him.
Even during woman's creation, God said, I will make a "help mate" comparable to you, so woman are intended to be support for men, that is a natural and good thing that the feminists have twisted and perverted into being second-class citizens.
Notice the part of the body that God took from Adam to make Eve...not from the foot, meaning she is subservient to him, and not from the head, meaning she is above him, but from his side, as was intended, a man and woman side by side, equal and different and wonderfully made.
Now men have an equally damning curse, but that is for another question I assume.
2007-01-06 00:15:48 · answer #4 · answered by Last Ent Wife (RCIA) 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Its this disgusting society, that gives a woman value only based on the appearance of her legs, the perkiness of her voice, and her ability to be the perfect hostess. I didn't buy into the lies, and you shouldn't either.
2007-01-06 00:14:45 · answer #5 · answered by Smiley 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Women want to be cheerleaders, most guys don't.
Do you want a guy that dances with other guys.
2007-01-06 00:15:55 · answer #6 · answered by Matt 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
they are secondary because thats the way its been for years.
2007-01-06 00:11:44 · answer #7 · answered by god_of_the_accursed 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋