someone who cares about you are not supposed to hurt you are they?????? if they dont care then why do i still hurt inside?
2007-01-05 15:58:37 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
People who care sometimes hurt you the most. Don't worry, someday you'll be happy trust me :-)
2007-01-05 16:02:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
People who care about you do sometimes hurt you. It's not always intentional. Sometimes pain is part of the relationship, no matter what kind of relationship it is. But if they truly care about you, they will help you deal with the problem that is causing the pain. It's never easy to cause pain or endure pain, and if they care about you, it's not easy for that person to watch you in pain.
Eventually it will stop hurting. Give it time. Talk to friends. Talk to someone... always.
2007-01-06 00:06:07 · answer #2 · answered by ailolyen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A broken heart is a hard thing to get over. I'm nursing a broken heart right now as well.... It hursts when someone you care about hurts you, even if you weren't together for that long. Time heals all wounds ad give it time. It will take at least a few months. Good luck.
2007-01-06 00:01:54 · answer #3 · answered by Diana K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes people who care about you hurt you and they don't realize it. and other times.. they may not really care as much as they say they do. talk it out with them.. it may help the pain go away. but remember that pain takes a long time to heal. it all depends on how much they hurt you and in what way they did.
2007-01-06 00:01:36 · answer #4 · answered by rach :) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They should care. Eventually the pain goes away, but the only thing you can really do is mellow out a bit. Sorry if that wasn't much help.
2007-01-06 00:00:47 · answer #5 · answered by Cassie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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Actually, the old saying is We only hurt the ones we love! Funny thing isn't it.But, the reality is we wouldn't hurt, if we didn't love.
Its not about them, Its about you.Why are you hurting? something said, something done , something not done. once you can identify what is the cause or the reason, you should be able to look at it more clearly.
2007-01-06 00:12:03 · answer #6 · answered by livelovelaugh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry the pain will eventually heal! Ull be able to move one!! XD
2007-01-06 00:04:08 · answer #7 · answered by Lil Cherry Blossom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Those are good questions...ones that need to be thought about. My only advise is talk to them about what they are doing to hurt you. Hopefully that helps...you may also want to look into going to therapy.
2007-01-06 00:02:34 · answer #8 · answered by b_fab115 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omigosh.............i'm sooooooooooo sorry that whoever this person is hurt you........i totally know the feeling.........it's not that they don't care about you it just means they messed up.........every one does......but it will still ALWAYS hurt.......but grieving is ok.......don't try to MAKE yourself get over it let time do it's job..............it's really ok to be sad......and honestly it's ok to cry...........just so you know my ex hurt me really bad and it's been almost 2 years...and i've even moved on to a new guy who's ten times better but it still hurts...........but don't worry it gets better you just really have to wait
2007-01-06 00:07:48 · answer #9 · answered by jamie_lynn_1109 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you haven't moved on or you haven't forgiven that person. that's why you still hurt...it'll go away if you will not dwell on that pain. it's up to you to forgive and accept..
good luck.. it will take time but it will go away. been there, done that!
2007-01-06 00:01:55 · answer #10 · answered by anette 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋