Okay, I like this guy and we've been talking for a couple of months now and I really like him, but theres 1 huge problem, he and a couple of other kids were talking about kissing and someone said to him "Hey I heard you got your 1st kiss from Jenn" and I think he said "Yeah shes my girlfriend..". And I told my best friend and she said when she saw the guy she liked dance with another girl she got very upset and her mother told her "Well you should tell him that you like him." but im timid and I don't want Zach to hate me or stop talking to me cause I asked him out,and my other friend told me that he was probably saying that so I he would get me to go out with him.And when I heard him say that he got kissed by Jenn I walked out of the place in tears,and I cried all night and all day today I was depressed.And my little sister asked if he was single and he said Yes he was. Should I tell him how I feel?
2007-01-05 15:45:17 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Should I call him, write a note and give it to him or go up to him and say it?
2007-01-05 15:50:01 · update #1
jenn is a loser he will defintly go for you if he knew you liked him
2007-01-05 15:53:55 · answer #1 · answered by G-diddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope, you should question where you got all these feelings from. you have way too much invested in this guy and are gonna hit bottom really hard. you talked yourself into these feelings, now talk yourself out of them. telling someone how you feel early on only appears to be an attempt to obligate the person into returning the same emotions which they may not have. there will be a better time and place for you to share your feelings, save it for later. you can always ask him if he is gay, and if he says no why do you ask, well you never see him around any girls and thought it would be a waste, that gets the hint across without you investing your own feelings. for some human reason, when people know someone is crazy about them, they run the other way. show an interest then walk away, let them show the next interest, don't keep trying to win him without him showing the next interest. you may not win this time but you will be developing strong courtship habits that will serve you through you life. you will learn to accept you don't always get what you want, none of us do.
2007-01-06 00:03:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what? he seems shady. first he says he has a girlfriend and now he is saying he is single? why would you have your little sister ask him? once a guy is not honest or plays head games...you have to bolt...he is not worth your tears. you will find someone...there are so many more decent guys out there. even if he were trying to get you jealous he is toying with your emotions or he is just a player....if you really can't stop thinking of him or can't let go of him...if it were me, i would tell him point blank and just say it to him about his comment and telling your sister he is single and how that conflicts. ask him if the kiss meant anything to him. some guys just kiss but they just play around. then they say it was just a kiss and they don't want to be with you like that...i had it happen so many times so its not a biggie to me. just ask and see what he says...in my opinion i would just move on but i don't know how attached you are. remember, saying all this may get him to be upset with you...but you have to weigh the consequences.. he may react very badly or it may be a good thing. is it worth wondering what would have happened had you asked? if it is...do it, if not, ignore it and leave him alone and just stay on good terms...be stoic and just wish him happiness and go find your happiness elsewhere. remember, if you keep stressing, then people talk and you get labelled and its not worth the drama and the lies that get spread. just ask and if not, don't tell anyone else that he knows all you feel because they can use it against you. good luck and don't wear your heart on your sleeve. be stronger and say **** him (to yourself) and avoid any heartbreak.
2007-01-05 23:53:36 · answer #3 · answered by kowalley 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself and don't fuss. If he is worthy of you he will notice you or at least not hate you. Not sure how old you are, but it doesn''t really matter. You should tell him how you feel only if its going to make things better for you. Don't be depressed over a guy, be strong... its far more attractive.
2007-01-05 23:51:47 · answer #4 · answered by Just Ang 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
drama rama! your stressing way too much over a boy that might not even like you enough to stress out over you!
if your shy, like me, you can either a)be friends and have him make the first move
or b) get over your shyness and just be straightforward. it could be really good or pretty ulgy.
good luck gurrl!!!
2007-01-05 23:51:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is way too much drama! If you really like the guy, then hang in there and see what happens!
2007-01-05 23:48:07 · answer #6 · answered by grandm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh give it a shot... Otherwise you will end up asking WHAT IF...
2007-01-05 23:48:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes see what he says
2007-01-05 23:47:37 · answer #8 · answered by resigned 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah.... just tell him how u feel and see if he feels the same way........ what is the worst that could happen????
2007-01-05 23:50:37 · answer #9 · answered by woodstock♥ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HONESTY IS THE BEST CURE. TELL HIM HOW YOU FEEL, WHO KNOWS IT MIGHT JUST HAPPEN. GOOD LUCK.
2007-01-05 23:49:40 · answer #10 · answered by misty blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋