2007-01-05 15:20:53 · 13 answers · asked by LaLa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There are many reasons to this...
1) The guys are intimidated, by such a good catch.
2) The guys think you are already with someone, so they don't approach.
3) The guys referred about are not wanting a commitment.
4) High standards.
5) Looking in the wrong places.
Re-evaluate what you are doing, where you are meeting these people, etc..., and you will find the right person. Sometimes you need to try doing things differently to find a way that works.
CyberNara
2007-01-05 15:40:51 · answer #1 · answered by Joe K 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they have a "hard time finding a spouse" because they're NOT REALLY LOOKING!
Let's face it, if a woman is well educated and has a fulfuling and well paying career, does she even NEED a man?
Since attractive and successful women don't have to hook up with a man to pay their bills, why would they even bother?
Remember, to a woman, having a man is like having another kid - yet another person who they have to clean and cook and wash dishes for. Worse yet, this "big kid" (the boyfriend/husband) also expects sex on the regular - and, unlike the other kids, the man never grows up and leaves the home!
So, looking at it from the female perspective, why would a woman want to be bothered with a man unless she was so broke that she had to have a guy to pay her bills?
A woman doesn't have to have a husband to have a kid - all she has to do is have unprotected sex with some guy or go to the sperm bank and make a withdrawal. And a woman doesn't need a man to be sexually satisfied - they can use their hands or a vibrator for that.
2007-01-05 15:27:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyone is different.. no fool proof explanation.
could be you are too picky about who you date. or could be your job and/or studies are conflicting with your ability to devote quality time to your relationships..
could be guys are intimidated by your looks and/or career success. they may feel they aren't good enough for you.
could be other general issues.. different values, attitudes, morals, compatability.. different wants and needs.. coudl be body language.. do you appear happy? are you likable? or are you depressed and always in a bad mood? these things rub off on people the wrong way...
could be you are not putting yourself in the right positions or places to meet people.. or could be you are struggling with social skills and people aren't getting the right read on you.
if you are ok with getting dates and relationships but can't get guys to commit to marriage.. hmmmm, could be you are pressuring them for commitment too soon.. i really don't know..
but yah, no fool proof explanation. we are all different. if i knew you better, i could probably do a better analysis of why you are having trouble..
but hey, you're not alone.. tons of beautiful and educated people out there why are frustrated about not being able to find love..
i'm 33. have only had 3 relationships. the longest was 3 months.. so do the math. i have been single for 99% of my life! sad and lonely..
but try not to worry. focus on things you can control. be a positive and happy person. if you can be physically and mentally healthy, and live a fulfilling and active life, you should be able to attract interest in many men..
2007-01-05 15:34:54 · answer #3 · answered by Jeff 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Most men are not interested in being spouses.
2007-01-05 15:23:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
How do you know that these women even want a spouse? Maybe they're already fulfilled without men. Ever thought of that?
2007-01-05 15:22:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
The problem is they have some choices and they dont want to compromise on that..U should have choice but the person is important but not what he has. like money, degree, position ..This is not the criteria to say yes..
2007-01-05 15:25:46 · answer #6 · answered by deva 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
"the smarter the woman gets, the more difficult for her to find the right man.." -oprah
because she's more logical(uses the brain..) than any women that uses only emotions to judge her decisions...
2007-01-05 15:25:09 · answer #7 · answered by anette 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes there is. They are much too picky and they think that no man is ever good enough for them.
2007-01-05 15:25:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because they're not looking in the right places.
2007-01-05 15:22:48 · answer #9 · answered by S K 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
because they seem to be not so educated ,wen it comes to men, and certain uneducated men who are educated, when it comes to women, take advantage of that.......
2007-01-05 15:25:25 · answer #10 · answered by H2O POLO BOY 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋