Ok, so he approached me, we exchanged contact info, and eventually went on a date and plan to go on another next week.. The thing is, we kinda meet through his ex-g/f who goes to the same school as me. We had class together for a few wks until she dropped it. We had a hi/bye status...never any long, serious convos.
Also, she kinda is obssessed with the dude! She still talks to him affectionately as though they go out. He clearly has no emotions for her though.
So once agin, am i wrong?
2007-01-05 15:18:35 · 17 answers · asked by PalmBeachNative 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We arent friends we just had a class together!!
2007-01-05 15:25:12 · update #1
well ya know how girls are, but make sure he's not saying one thing to u and another to her. not like you're the "other woman" but if he's talkin to her and saying enough where she thinks they can still be together....he might be tryin to have his cake and eat it too. becareful~ good luck!
2007-01-05 15:23:24 · answer #1 · answered by akd_0713 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to step back and let him deal with her. She is his problem, You stay nice and polite and civil and do not jump into anything sexual for as long as you can, just to make sure you are not being played here. If you and the guy end up getting serious, she will get the message and eventually leave you two alone.
2007-01-05 23:23:04 · answer #2 · answered by artist-oranit.com. 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
no,.. just as long he has no feeling 4 her and just keep a look out on what she does. another words keep ur eyes peeled. keep yalls relationship really well so he wont loose interest. have u tried talking to her about it? or telling her off?
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allison
2007-01-05 23:23:07 · answer #3 · answered by alycat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If his ex-girlfriend is your friend, then yes, you're wrong. If she isn't, then go for it. It's never a good idea to date the ex of a friend!
2007-01-05 23:21:32 · answer #4 · answered by grandm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey girl life's a B*tch if you really think he likes you and is not using you to get his own back at this pal of yours, and your sure her feelings for him are one sided then go for it. At the end of the day she had her chance and she blew it, and he might be the love of your life. xxxx
2007-01-05 23:25:54 · answer #5 · answered by Virus 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think ur wrong. if u and the ex were friends it would b a totally different story...... just watch out 4 the crazy ex
2007-01-05 23:41:09 · answer #6 · answered by woodstock♥ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say you're ok. I ended up with my boyfriend after trying to set him up with two of my friends. They weren't interested; I figured out I was, and there were no hard feelings from anyone.
2007-01-05 23:21:45 · answer #7 · answered by Cat Loves Her Sabres 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No..you're not wrong. But if the g/f is obsessed, you may want to take it slow until she gets over him.
2007-01-05 23:22:26 · answer #8 · answered by David S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope. you shouldn't be guilty of anything. or you just feel guilty bec you might hurt the feelings of the girl. well then, that's the problem of the girl.. he still haven't moved on..but still be nice to her don't ignore her..
2007-01-05 23:22:20 · answer #9 · answered by anette 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I recommend that if you and her are good friends, state how you feel about this guy to her. You are not wrong. gl
2007-01-05 23:22:43 · answer #10 · answered by c s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋