ok i really i mean really like this guy and he said he liked me..but it seems that he's avoiding me now, not answering my emails stuff like that...and talking to me a lot less online..we used to talk online all day every day of the week..but his was like a month ago..i miss that..and i can never talk to him about it cuz all he does is avoid me..and im sad cuz my friend just told me that he might not like me anymore....what do u think? im trying to go out with him eventually. oh yea he says "im too shy" but he's actually the shy one too...
2007-01-05 15:11:29 · 7 answers · asked by rawrr 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it feels like im bothering him it doesnt feel right lol
2007-01-05 15:14:55 · update #1
jus tell him u like him, he might be trying to see if u really like himand waiting for u
2007-01-05 15:14:01 · answer #1 · answered by USER 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be completely honest, he is probably not very interested in you anymore because you didn't make a move earlier. But that's okay, dont feel bad, he sounds like a jerk if he said he liked you and then stopped answering your emails. If you choose that you still want him- then whatever you do - do NOT email him. Do not go online. Do not give him any inch or sight of you for a couple days. Then go online and ask him to hang out - the computer ALWAYS messes up things for me too between guys. So just try and get off the computer and take him out :) then when he see's the real you in PERSON, he will probably change his mind and like you!
hope this helps and good luck!!
2007-01-05 23:15:35 · answer #2 · answered by ashley r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is aviding you and people are telling you that they dont think that he likes you anymore then maybe he donst like you anymore. Or it could be that he is just really bussy at the time and dosnt have as much time to talk with you. So just get him alone and talk to him about it and ask him if he still likes you (if he told you once than he will tell you again. And if he does tell him you feel the same and make a date (he probably would ask you out) Luck
2007-01-05 23:19:13 · answer #3 · answered by gotansas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, i am going through virtually the same thing! i feel like this guy used to really like me as well, initiated contact with me, emailed me, made all these plans, but then over the past month or two he's totally pushed back and almost avoided me, it seems. i really really like him (liked him throughout the past 6 months that we've been talking), and it's been a constant battle as to whether to say anything to him. he's sort of immature in the relationship sense, i feel, considering he's a bit socially strange too (as in, he makes all these nebulous plans but never lives up to them! did that a lot with me, to which i got really upset and told him to change, and it's cute, he took that into consideration and tried to change that about himself).
In any case, I have the same issue as you and it's really upsetting, i know :( it's sad when you REALLY like someone and they just don't like you back (or you don't know if they do).
If i could offer advice i would, but am not honestly too sure. i am the kind of person who doesn't express my feelings to the person --and in this case a lot of my friends say i shouldn't with him--but i feel something eating at me.
anyway, let me know what you think about this.
2007-01-05 23:21:45 · answer #4 · answered by curiousone 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
asking him whats bugging him might solve your mind buggling problem. or probably he's just busy. but then it's better you should ask him..rather than asking your friends. it's better to get the answer straight from him.being shy won't give you answers..
2007-01-05 23:15:04 · answer #5 · answered by anette 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well shy guys usually like outgoing girls...
2007-01-05 23:13:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he just kidding, dont believe, dont be always serious
2007-01-05 23:17:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋