what do u look for in a girl?
2007-01-05 14:38:26 · 26 answers · asked by clutzmuch276 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
there're two kinds of guys, girl:
1. guys who wanna have fun
they might go for personality n fun...but what they're really after is your body.. cuz we guys're VERY physical.. we want physical intimacy..so some might go further to answer this longing by dating girls who look beautiful outside..and luckily, inside..
2. guys who're lookin for marriage
i'm in this category..so i'll tell u wat i think... i look for who you are, girl... what u're made of..on the inside..what u do in different situations..ur character.. how u live.. what principles u stand for.. cuz all these stuff are important if i'm gonna marry u n love you for the REST OF MY LIFE... i know it might sound cliche..maybe it's cuz we're very rare to find... as u probably have seen, guys in this category ain't so happenin.. we're careful about the girls we date, cuz we ask ourselves, "Am i gonna be able to stand her for the rest of my life?"... well, maybe that's why i'm still single.. it kinda sucks..but i dun wanna go around playin with girls n breakin their hearts once i figured "i've had enough"...
so please be careful which type of guy u're lookin for k.. i dun want you gettin hurt..
but for u, please be urself.. however, NOT ur PRESENT self... be the BEST YOU CAN EVER BE..with what you have..and not what u don't have.. keep developin everythin about you.. cuz when u've done that, i guess u'd be the most interesting person to live with... and maybe i'd wanna know u too..
2007-01-05 14:53:33 · answer #1 · answered by deathbyte 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are gonna get a bunch of bullshit answers from pussy guys. This is the fact of the matter:
Pretty face (aka takes care of herself).
A guy will NEVER talk to a girl in a way he would be sexually aroused to consider dating if the girl is not attractive or takes care of herself.
When I go look for a gf I look for a pretty face and body first of all, then I will move in flirt and get to know her a little better, if I don't like her personality, which has yet to happen because if you are talking to her it is because she attracted your attention and you are at least somewhat turned on already, then I will probably just move back or switch the convo to a "just friends type".
Remember when I say "takes care of herself" i mean taking care of the things she CAN fix obviously if you dont have a thin model-type waist you probably never will and thats fine. What would not be fine would be being obese or dressing poorly for example which are things you CAN control.
2007-01-05 22:48:09 · answer #2 · answered by h4rmony 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the first thing i notice is looks because i don't talk to them with my eyes closed, second is personality, it may come second but it is the most important,i love it when a girl will gaze into my eyes and you feel that connection, its amazing.a sense of humor is a must and she has to be fun to be around, i dont like seeing a beautiful girl and then finding out that she talks like the clear eyes guy so personality is the best thing a girl can have, also she has to have, the ability to love, not like, but LOVE. you know that feeling when you hang up the phone with them and you immediatly want to call them back, the feeling of pain when you see them hurt, and that is Love, it is more important than anything!
2007-01-05 22:48:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A girl has to have a cute face. Otherwise I'm never attracted to her in the first place. She has to show compassion and love. She has to be very kind, not vengeful or hateful. That's personality. She has to be accepting and forgiving. She has to be able to have fun, not be too uptight. That's my girlfriend right there for you.
2007-01-05 22:46:48 · answer #4 · answered by Dido 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course a nice smile/mouth (nice teeth etc.) fun to be around, good personality, nice body is always nice but not the most important (for me they have to be somewhat in shape) just all around a fun person.
2007-01-05 22:41:34 · answer #5 · answered by gotansas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really common and stupid question asked by girls. I look for a kind personality,looks should be ok,not overly-pretty.
2007-01-05 22:40:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok looking (i do NOT want a supermodel, normal looking will do just fine)
personality matters a lot, including honesty.
intelligence, especially of the common sense range
2007-01-05 22:46:27 · answer #7 · answered by implosion13 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A girl can share my sadness and pressure.Make me more happy to live in this world.Also maybe she can take care of my live or opposite.
2007-01-05 22:44:09 · answer #8 · answered by Little Alex 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Common interests, attraction, sense of humor, honesty, ambition, maturity, reliability... also someone that doesn't always agree with me, I don't want my opinions repeated back to me. Free spirit, sound mind, intelligence, free thinker.
2007-01-05 22:41:49 · answer #9 · answered by Digi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i look 4 PHAT and FAB acronim scoring system personality, hips/hair,abs,thighs,face,@$$ and boobs my favorite they got to b big and a sxy body someone that looks hawt in a skimpy bikini or victoria secret bras /lingere
2007-01-05 22:42:42 · answer #10 · answered by jeffyboi77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋