or will they always have somtype of feelings for each other?
2007-01-05 14:37:47 · 9 answers · asked by girly_goth1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Romantic love can transform over time to sisterly/brotherly love. Two of my best friends are exs and I love and trust them both dearly.
2007-01-05 14:44:58 · answer #1 · answered by lilrubberducky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course ex's can still be friends. it would be a silly choice if the relationship was really serious and/or ended or had lots of rough times. it really depends on the person.. my last boyfriend cheated on me and completely used me and when i got the guts to leave him, he begged me to come back or at least be friends. of course, that is the situation where one would say no (and i did). but with another one of my ex's, he was a sweetheart, we just kinda lost our feelings for each other, it ended softly and to this day we are extremely close.
i was in a very intense relationship with another man for several months - even marriage was discussed (he was a good friend before then), but that ended, a little roughly, but we respected each other and got along extraordinarily well. And he is still my best friend.
So of course ex-lovers can be friends, but make sure it is for good reasons and that you are comfortable with it. if something feels completely wrong, don't stick around, but if you're still great friends and avoid talking about old fights, it should work out great!
=)
2007-01-05 22:46:04 · answer #2 · answered by madelaine arnaud 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl,if u just broke up with some one heres my advice.right after you broke up go to your house fix yourself your fave snack and fave drink and maybe read a book or watch some tv or movies and try not to think of him.the more u think of him the more u feel bad about breaking up.(unless u broke up because he did something to u that hurt you.just bare with me)when u r ready if u want u could call him or something and just become friends.dont be seen TOO much topgether because people might think u got back together.
the point is,u could be friends with him if u wanted to.if u dont just forget bout him and go on with your life.hope this helps
bye
2007-01-05 22:50:08 · answer #3 · answered by -Izzie☮ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I think an ex can still be a friend if you were friends before and the break up wasn't that bad.
2007-01-05 22:39:45 · answer #4 · answered by Engel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's possible to be just friends. If you had feelings for that person, you will always have some sort of attachment to them.
2007-01-05 22:40:36 · answer #5 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
off corse exs can be i mean i love a girl i mean like loveeeed her and i still do after we broke up we both love eachother in a differint way now i mean just becouse u stoped loving them doesnt mean u stoped loving them compleatly if u realy cared about them when u were dating that y cant u now
2007-01-05 22:41:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Define your meaning of feelings!
If the sex was good: NO
If the sex kind of sucked: MAYBE, but most likely not. Especially after you get drunk!
2007-01-05 22:44:20 · answer #7 · answered by Marc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They can be better Friends than lovers, sometimes. They seem to be easier to talk to.
2007-01-05 22:44:35 · answer #8 · answered by charlie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
usually, there will be some leftover feelings, but if you FIRMLY set DEFINED boundaries, it can work, kinda.
2007-01-05 22:44:44 · answer #9 · answered by Cory W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋