i have liked this guy for like a month. and each day i like him more and more. and now i think i love him but the thing is that when i asked if he like me he said only as a friend. and i am trying to get over him and move on but i cant. what should i do?
if u can answer this thanx
2007-01-05 14:35:09 · 6 answers · asked by jerkybabe 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
talking from experience. the things that I had to do to get over this was to identify what it is that really drew me to the other person, the specific things that made my heart quicken, then identify those things in others. Then find the things that I really did not like about the person. Is like finding the flaw in a diamond you were just happy to have and then had to think about getting rid of... is no picnic, but once you do, you will find it easy to move on... just keep that practice to a minimum as it will unwravel other relationships on its own if you always do not keep those thoughts in check... also, involve yourself in group activities. helps to distract...
2007-01-05 14:41:50 · answer #1 · answered by Duane 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
im going through the same problem and i dont know what to do either but the best edvice that i could give you is that you should tell him bc he might feal the same way about you and you wont know and then u and him might love eacher but not know it and start growing further apart (whick is happeinig to me lol)and then you wont know what u had till hes gone if you really want to get over him watch your body language around him and dont flirt that much, be aware of your body and your speaking at all time so u dont get all tongue tied head over heals in love kinda thing
2007-01-05 14:41:26 · answer #2 · answered by nodaybuttoday 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There isn't one way to do this. You just have to let yourself feel the hurt until it stops. Sorry I can't tell you that there is a secret formula to it. I am also sorry that your heart is broken.
2007-01-05 14:38:49 · answer #3 · answered by MW 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Almost In love with? you are either In love or not there is no almost. You are Infatuated but not In love. Infatuation Is a momentary Phase we all go through.
2007-01-05 14:41:47 · answer #4 · answered by trendz 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Start seeing other people, or keep your self entertained, so you don't think about him.
2007-01-05 14:40:47 · answer #5 · answered by charlie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Everything comes in its own time.
2007-01-05 14:37:26 · answer #6 · answered by thikingdomcome 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋