I really really like by best guy friend, and I was told that he act like he likes me to. Were were good friends and on myspace he claims that I am his best girl friend. Well this year in school we dont have many classes together, like we did last year, but now after school we hang out a lot more, and he also asked me to give him oral. He asked in a jokeingly way but now I think hes more serious. I dont kno what hes thinking, dose he want some, is he testing me or what? When I go over his house, 10 min. later his pants are off, but were still cracking jokes at eachother. I mean I really like him, and trust him. Should I tell him how I feel. I just dont want to make our friendship ockward or anything, but I also see him staring at me during school when we pass or when we hangout. I'l 14 and I can almost say that Im scared on how things turn out, bacause I just dont want our friendship ruined id things dont work out, but I also very much trust him. Is this right?
2007-01-05 14:29:33 · 7 answers · asked by Monster Love 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know other people my age have done this, but is this right. Am I to young. Or is he just being a jerk? Is he waiting for me to make a move or what. I was told from friends that he acts like he likes me, and now I seem to be repeating myself. Please help. =]
2007-01-05 14:31:48 · update #1
This guy is not your friend he just wants to **** you. Run away! Run away!
2007-01-05 14:31:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, you are way too young. True, you can physically do it, but it will mess up your head. And, if he's like 99% of guys, it will be all over school the next day if it happens. I promise you this- no matter how nice of a guy he is- he will talk. Guys just can't keep their mouth shut, they think it makes them look like studs to all of their buddies. And they all ask for oral sex, but I don't remember ever hearing of a guy offering to do that for the girl, so what does that tell you? It's all about them. DON'T DO IT!! If you don't want to stop hanging out with him all together, at least stop hanging out with him alone, then nothing can happen that YOU WILL REGRET LATER.
2007-01-05 22:41:43 · answer #2 · answered by Susan H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful. If he's trying to force you to give oral then he's not a friend. Personally it's a bit much. What you really need to decide is whether it's right with you. Writing this note suggests that you are not comfortable, and that's not right. Tell him how you feel but that you need to take things slow. If he pushes he's not worth it and dump the idiot. Otherwise take it slow and make sure you do nothing you're not comfortable with. It does not matter if other girls your age are doing things, all that matters is that you are happy and comfortable!
2007-01-05 22:37:21 · answer #3 · answered by kat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey gurl me too i have the same problem like you, but this worked for me. If you like him and he makes you happy, ask him out. And yes, he is ur BFF for life, as you know, so look him in the eyes and say: "no matter if we break up let's promise to always be friends." you see, even if you break up with him, it will BE awkward for a few, but then you'll feel normal again.
2007-01-05 22:35:00 · answer #4 · answered by calli577 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
please don't!! i think you're too young.... and i think that he just wants some action, he's a KID and guys that age just want to prove they're all grown up and they ARE NOT. don't be a victim, you'll regret it forever. if you do it, trust me, you'll be blowing him one day and on bed the other... and you're just a kid... everything comes on it's due time, and this definitely is not yours
2007-01-05 23:15:52 · answer #5 · answered by 215 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems to me that you've answered your own question ... if you're questioning the situation, just don't do it.
2007-01-05 22:35:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that he wants some honestly, but maybe he is just being flirty cause he likes you.
2007-01-05 22:32:55 · answer #7 · answered by Pablo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋