Be honest, but don't be surprised if the 'other guy' ends up taking someone else to the dance. Its just life.
2007-01-05 14:12:03
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answer #1
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answered by Anonymous
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The best thing is to be honest, and tell him that you have already been asked by someone else..be sincere about it, This happened to me of course years ago, and the boy liked me a lot but at the dance I found out that he didn't like to dance at all, and other boy never left the dance floor, everyone was dancing with him, as I sat there all night with the boy I liked. The next dance we had at school I went with the other boy and had a great time.
2007-01-05 14:21:55
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answer #2
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answered by Diana J 5
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I would go with the guy that asked you first. You can always talk to the guy that you like and tell him that you've been asked already but that you'd like to go to the next dance with him or maybe go out some other time. That way you can still hang with the guy you like later on and not hurt anyone else. It's just a dance and there are a lot of them. Just cause this guy takes you doesn't mean you have to go to all the dances with him. He put himself out there, just go. You may have fun after all.
2007-01-05 14:19:24
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answer #3
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answered by meghanw1 4
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First and foremost, make sure that the guy whom you want to date with also wants you to be his partner. if yes then tell the other boy in a very kind way that you cant go with him since you already have your partner but of course he can ask you for a dance in the school even if he is not your partner. but if the boy whom you like to go with in the dance is not available or whatever then better take the other boy for a date.
2007-01-05 14:29:07
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answer #4
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answered by thecajun 3
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Just tell him that you are already going with someone else (if you are)... If you are not going with that person yet, just tell him your flattered but you only think of him as a friend... dont lie and say your going with that other guy if your not yet (because if you show up without that guy... the other guy will know you lied).
2007-01-05 14:13:23
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answer #5
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answered by Sammy 5
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Who asked you first? If you already have a date, it would be telling the truth. Are you going with friends? Are you hoping someone else will ask you?
2007-01-05 14:11:45
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answered by Joe C 5
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You are screwed, you are going to hurt his feelings either way. I say go with the one you want, after all if you go with him but then don't continue the relationship it will have the same effect. You girls need to learn that you can't make every guy that likes you happy! Good luck.
2007-01-05 14:11:55
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answer #7
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answered by Siervocal 3
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You should go to the dance with the person you like.
You don't have to tell the first guy why you're turning him down....all you have to say is...thank you for asking me, but not this time.
Being polite will allow you to do pretty much anything.
2007-01-05 14:13:28
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answer #8
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answered by daljack -a girl 7
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umm...if this guy REALLY wants to go to the dance with you badly, go with him. and as for the other guy, tell him that another guy asked you, and you don't wanna hurt his feelings and you're going with him. he should understand. because, the other boy who asked you probably wants to go with u more then the boy u were planning to go with.
2007-01-05 14:12:28
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answer #9
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answered by A Girl 4
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Sometimes you have to crush someone's feelings to get what you really want. As long as you do it with some tact they will learn some kind of lesson. It will make their heart harder and their soul alittle bit colder. They will be better for it.
2007-01-05 14:12:48
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answered by Anonymous
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