at my school the is a "popularity" group...i am in it....well all the kids in the group(and outside the group)go out...and they don't go on dates,,,,,they don't sit by eachother,,,,rarely talk...the only reason they go "OUT" is because the wanna tell there friends they have a GF/BF!!... well arent they supposed to go on dates?..u no... ...i think im actually pretty pretty....im not fat...i dont have acne..ect.. no one ever asks me out...i have only had 1 BF and that was in 3rd grade!!!
do you think im rite or wrong?how do i get a BF!?!??!?!
2007-01-05 13:51:23 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Grade-Schooler
dont worry about it you too young to worry about that just enjoy you time being a kid
2007-01-05 13:54:55 · answer #1 · answered by ~Amber~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like you said your only in the 6th grade you need to take this time and be a kid,you have plenty of time for boyfriends when your older. And dont feel bad because you dont have a boyfriend at this age have you thought about the boys could be just trying to get in the girls pants. Your education is more important right now don't try to grow up to fast and when your older you will regret it.
2007-01-05 16:07:52 · answer #2 · answered by little D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be in such a hurry you will have many BF as time goes by and also many heart breaks ask your mom for advice she went through all of this stuff when she grew up so did your dad. Tell them how you feel and listen to what they have to say you might not like the answers to your problem but they do know best and are really only thinking of whats right for you. As time goes by you will find out they will always be there for you.Friends come and go.
2007-01-05 14:04:47 · answer #3 · answered by Mr Zip 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why do you want a bf? 11 or 12 years old, guy is not at all serious
My 3 friends expience it already. My first friend broke her heart 2 times my 2nd friend's bf ; he is only playing w/ her like bet. and the last is pinagsawaan ( they didnt want her anymore). Now they promised to each other they will not have a bf unless they graduated.
and my not xsactly friend, he has a gf but he is doing that because his gf's sister told him to.
Dont! w8 .... when you become 4th year high school or 3rd year you can, those year, boys are getting serious. but dont spect a long relationship. maybe 2 years is the long time.
2007-01-05 14:00:50 · answer #4 · answered by XFNET 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You guys are WAYYYY too young to date. Wait till you're like 15. You're not even really going out if you don't talk at all. They're only doing it so that they stay popular. Be glad that you haven't been asked out yet. It's way too much drama. If you really want a bf, which I'm suggesting you don't get one, then just ask someone out that you like. It's the 21st century don't wait for the guy to ask you.
2007-01-06 11:43:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My kids arent dating until they are 16,when they have some level of maturity about relationships. Children dating at 11-14 is the reason why so many children are pregnant or have sexually transmitted diseases. Don't worry about the boys yet, you have plenty of time for that, enjoy being a child because it doesn't last long.
2007-01-05 14:09:35 · answer #6 · answered by Urchin 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You dont really need a boyfriend especially if its only to brag or show off or whatever. Im not that old ether and its like the same situation in my school i think theres really no reason to have a boyfriend but if you really wanted a boyfriend you could try asking them out or just become good friends with some guy and if you wanted just ask him out but get to know him and you guys could probably hang out at your houses or the mall with older siblings or something.
2007-01-05 14:03:19 · answer #7 · answered by Tor 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hold off the BFs for now. To older kids, it looks like your playing grown up. These kids can't even drive themselves to a date, so they aren't really dating. Guys at your age are still eating sand and spiders, so wait until they mature. Even if your pretty, guys may be too shy to ask you out. wait a few years to date. It seems like a long time, but i will respect you for waiting instead of playing grown up like the popular kids.
2007-01-05 13:57:22 · answer #8 · answered by ask lylah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need a boyfriend to make you feel important. You are fine the way you are. Build your confidence and enjoy your friends. Boyfriends are overrated. Besides, why limit youself? Most of the bf/gf relationships will not last. Save your heart for someone when you are older. Enjoy being yourself and having friends.
2007-01-06 04:23:45 · answer #9 · answered by mel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Decide what u really want right now in your life..In a year or so you wont even be around these people anymore. Im older and have been there before, doing things just for the "in crowd" is never the thing to do, you will and I mean you WILL regret it later. like I said decide what it is you want to deal with right now, and I know it sucks but your parents know a lot about this stuff, if its possible ask them how they feel about dating.
2007-01-05 13:55:27 · answer #10 · answered by jimckinnon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im in basic terms 18 and yet i nonetheless locate this extraordinary, while i grew to become into youthful yeh i had girlfriends in usual college and did t he total kiss chase 2 timing element haha, yet i in my opinion don't comprehend why 10/11/12/13 12 months olds get into what they call "extreme relationships" YOUR nonetheless a infant bypass have relaxing while i grew to become into that age, i grew to become into only shifting into bands and enjoying music and workstation video games and going out enjoying soccer or only messing approximately at no factor did i even evaluate getting a protracted term lady pal.
2016-11-26 22:56:19 · answer #11 · answered by dextra 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋