okay this is how it goes (usually)...
you gaze in each other eyes, then you start kissing. first, it's soft lip kissing, then you both open your mouths a bit (not too much) and start "touching" each other's tongues softly. then the next step is to open your mouths wider (still not too much) and there will be more tongue touching as if you're massaging his tongue with yours. don't shove your tongue in his mouth too much, make sure you don't do that because it can be a bad surprise. about the hands, put them wherever it feels comfortable. around his neck, around his waist, on his chest, stroking his hair, on the wall behind you if he's got you pinned to the wall (very sexy) ;) just don't think about it too much. go with the flow of the moment and don't think it's complicated. it's not. it's romantic (unless you're doing it with a random guy at a house party), and sensual, and you should enjoy every second of it. it is also preferable if you brush your teeth, and pop a mint in your mouth, and make sure you don't wear too much lip gloss (your lips will be slippery enough) lol. good luck :)
2007-01-07 06:18:30
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answered by Anonymous
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okay, i'm not a person who uses alot of tongue. so i can't particularly help you there. its always all sloppy and messy when we do kiss with tongue. so i prefer not to. usually i just take one of his lips between the two of mine and suck and hold it there until we involuntarily fall apart. i put one hand on the side of his face, and one in the back of his hair. or either both on his face, that makes him think i want him. a good place to do it is anywhere. it deosn't matter where. if you both are into it, it will be great anywhere anytime. i never use gum i never use lipgloss and i never use mints. but i'm the kind of girl that only applys make-up once a day. i brush my teeth in the morning and at night and always before a date. therefore mints and gum are not needed. and lipgloss only drys out your lips. no one wants to kiss a crusty lip! hahah. anyways girl, goodluck!
2007-01-05 21:59:04
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answered by youmakemesmile :] 1
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1. u can suck the tounge really hard depends on the guy if he is rough or gentleand kiss deeply 2. put ur hands in his head or back or @$$ but smooth 3. u can do it in his room, or ur room in the park or a romantic dinner in a restaurant or home 4. just always use listerine causes ur breath wont be kicking till the next day is good and use mints not dat much or else is gonna be obvious and dont use to much excessive lipgloss, just nice shiny.
good luck
2007-01-05 21:55:58
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answered by **I Walk Alone** 2
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1.) when he puts his tongue in your mouth
2.) in his mouth sorta wrestle with his tongue some
3.) anywhere. lol under the stars at night is nice
4)mints b4 if you feel you need it. nothing too strong. maybe a light lipgloss...possibly something that tastes good
2007-01-05 21:54:58
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answered by tuxgal3 5
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All you got to know is moving your tongue around in his mouth and under his tongue while he's doing the same to you if your doing that then your are doing it good.
2007-01-05 21:56:17
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answered by Irish Girl 5
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First,lipgloss is good,no gum.Do it as long as you feel like they wanna do it,do it like at the movies,or at a park or something.The tongue thing is up to you girl! Good Luck! I hoped I helped! :)
2007-01-05 21:54:12
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answered by Anonymous
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OK for me i go with the flow of the guy, some guy like it chili hot, you just flow with his body am sure he's warring about pleasing you too.it's good to be venerable when kissing too, just be free and relax like you know you wanna do this, and go for it forget about every think around you.
2007-01-05 21:56:31
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answered by celi 5
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"girls only"? I just got the memo that guys don't make out, sorry. Lol. But if you're wondering if you're doing it right, and if you're trying to see if you're raching a guy's "perspeciton" (expectation?), then why not ask GUYS too?
Good luck though.
2007-01-05 21:54:26
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answered by X16 3
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u just put ur tongue in their mouth and its kinda massaging theirs. you hug them when kissing. u kiss in privacy not where everyone can see u. have mints before u kiss. its comes naturally when u kiss
2007-01-05 21:54:57
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answered by CHALEAH J 1
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