Feeling happy again?

Question

This new years has been rough. I got into a stupid argument w/ a girl that I was seeing for awhile. I treated her like she was everything and I had really fallen for her. For whatever reason she doesn't want to forgive me right now for our argument (me being upset that she was talking about hooking back up w/ her ex boyfriends...and then by me being drunk and kinda blowing up her phone that night to try to get her to talk to me) she's not sure she wants to be friends anymore. I'm conflicted. I know I shouldn't want anything to do w/ her, but she is the only girl I've liked in a long time...and she's the only girl in a long time to like me. I have classes w/ her 3 days a week starting next week. I want 2 be friends b/c I don't have any female friends, but idk if that could work b/c I had fallen for her so hard. I don't think I can let her go, but realize that I probably should...but she's always on my mind all day. How should I approach this and what steps can i take to be happy again?

Answer 1

I hate to say this,but usually when a chic wants her space shes already looking somewhere else. I've been through plenty of heart break myself. Now I learned to take it in stride. Next girl you meet you'll know if she really digs you.In the mean time you got to let it go,do the things You want to accomplish.Some people aren't ready to fully commit.You have in your mind the ideal partner.Learn to see past what could be a reflection of how you think they are and see them for who they really are.Be good to yourself you owe it to yourself to have it genuine.Not having a girlfriend isn't anything close to not having yourself.Shine on you crazy diamond..

Answer 2

If u still like her it is going to be hard being just friends with her. But just talk to her like friends and everything will work out fine at the end.

Answer 3

love is so damn hard. try giving her some space. give her time to figure out what she wants. don't become a jerk...be there, be kind, and be a friend.