We met. We dated. We broke up. We dated again, it works! Then it doesn't. And ex from 2-3 yrs ago has been calling & she wants in, and she gets in. That means I'm out - SUDDENLY & w/o notice! I'm hurt, lost, confused, befuddled, the whole 9. I wanna go on, but can't. We were happy, he was happy, I was happy, not any more. 2/3 wks go by & we talk again. Now he's confused, maybe he made a mistake? She tells him didn't - but last night he told me he did? hmm? We're still tlkg, he shouldn't be & he knows, but we're still tlkg. 2/3 wks later I'm in town & I c him. A wk later it's New Year's Eve & we R spending it 2gether, as friends. She's still in, but he's w/me & I'll C him 2nite 2. Suddenly, while I'm there, it hits me, we R over! Y am I here? Kickin it lk we used 2, then it hit me, we R over! I love him & want 2 b w/him. But he lied 2 me about the reason 4 the break-up & she's still in. He wants 2 C/spend tm w/me & I do 2. It's a dead end, rt? I need 2 move on rt? It's a dead end, rt?
2007-01-05 13:41:03 · 10 answers · asked by toffeedream 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he knows what he's doing. he has two girlfriends. he's only in it for the ego boost. he has no feelings for either one of you
2007-01-05 13:45:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Time is the best healer put distance and stay clear.
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2007-01-05 14:05:37 · answer #2 · answered by minootoo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we think and talk to our self about the things which is gone, which is past, but we can't move on coz of our attachment to someone whom we love the most..forcefully just don't wanna forget the past...we should think about our realities and truth.. I know it's hard..but by the time everything will be okay..Or u can wait until he found who's value is most important in his life..He might come back to you..but it's up to u if u really are confident about him Give urself some time & stop judging urself and himself too..gud luck!
2007-01-05 14:25:15 · answer #3 · answered by Diya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's over, just move on. Getting back together with an ex never works out. Trust me I've tried. Move on, please. I just recently broke-up and then realized that I still loved him, i tried to get back together and stay with him, but it didn't work out. Now I've accepted the fact that were over, you should too. Life is too short to be stuck on exes. If your meant to be then you'll find your way back to each other.
2007-01-05 13:49:48 · answer #4 · answered by Katerina Z 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This scenario is just too convoluted for words. Yes, move on. No man is worth this kind of confusion. If this bozo doesn't know what he wants, he's not worth your time. If he contacts you again, tell him to hit the road.
2007-01-05 13:45:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't want to commit to you, you shouldn't still be seeing him.Don't give him the plessure of knowing he can have both of you girls at once.The situation will just continue getting worse.It sounds like you guys were really happy.Tell him he has to pick...all of you or none of you
2007-01-05 13:45:44 · answer #6 · answered by Princess1124 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't know why we gurlz fall for jerks. don't you have a self esteem. why do you think he's the only one. move over girl. you deserve better. he is not the last guy left on this planet. show him that you can live better off without him
2007-01-05 16:33:16 · answer #7 · answered by chinnu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u add one more with u. Enjoy 2x2 & let your bf hurt,who cares for these people
2007-01-05 16:51:45 · answer #8 · answered by sk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know what say
good life
2007-01-05 13:44:39 · answer #9 · answered by moad odat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can't understand your ques
2007-01-05 16:24:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋