Me and my girlfriend have been dating for 2 years and we've both been cheated on once in other relationships. I have lived passed that and am only thinking of the of whats going on in the present but my girlfriend has been thinking that its going to happen again. I can't talk or be with a girl even if I'm with my girlfriend. She just dosn't trust me and trust is the most important thing in a relationship. She moved but were still going out but I'v made friends with some girls that she dosn't know but I would never cheat on her with them!! There just fun to be around in gym and when I have know one to talk to. Tell me what I should do to help my girl friend reilize that I'm not going to cheat on her if I have friends that are girls.
2007-01-05 13:38:31 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have a friend in the same spot when you get the answer plz plz plz let me know....
2007-01-05 13:43:00 · answer #1 · answered by tinkerbell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say you two have been together for two years, right? Well if she hasn't found you trustworthy by now then she is not worth having. I mean i know that is bad as it sounds or seems but it is the truth. And i can see where she coming from though b/c i used to be like that but you just get over it and love your present mate. So just don't force her to start trusting you just show some signs that you are trustworthy.
Luv Ur Grrl,
Aleria
2007-01-05 13:46:48 · answer #2 · answered by Aleria 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your girlfriend has trust issues, that may require some counseling. Nothing you can say or do will convince her that you will not cheat. If she continues to be so insecure and suspicious,she may drive you to do the very thing she fears. (happens some time)
2007-01-05 13:43:17 · answer #3 · answered by NAN G 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Tell her straight, her unwarranted jealously will drive you away, then the ball's in her court to lift her act....
2007-01-05 13:43:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋