Need advice on how to get a BOYFRIEND !!!!!!!!?

Question

Theres other things I don't get, like how to get a boy firend. Is it like two people talking and talking, and suddenly kiss???!!! How do we know if we are the perfect match for each other? Is there a question we could ask? IF yes, wat is it? I an 12, ill be 13 in 7 month, is this the perfect age to acctualy have a bf, and kiss and stuff? NEED ADVICE!!!

Answer 1

I hate sounding like an adult, but I think you should wait. I am 19 years old. When I was your age, I was a wild child and I made a vow never to act like my mom. However, when your a child you think like a child and when you are an adult you think like an adult. When I was your age, I did many things that I regret and one of those is getting involved with boys when I was too young. The reason being that I was too young to understand what having a boyfriend is. I didn't know the meaning of love and I didn't know how to respect myself. The reason you don't know how many of these things happen because you are way too young to be thinking about them! Just because girls at your school and possibly your friends have had boyfriends and kisses does not mean you have to! Be smarter than them and save the moment for someone really special. I suggest you put off the thought of boyfriends until you are 16. By then you will be old enough for dates, you will be old enough to make your stance about your virginity, and you will be old enough to not throw the words, " I love you" around. I can promise you that any relationships that you get involved with before highschool will only be childhood flings and puppy love. I can not stress how important innocence is, so keep it while you can. You have your whole life to have boyfriends and kiss. Try to enjoy being a young teen right now and focusing on school and what you might want to do with your life because the end of highschool comes faster than you think. After highschool, you are thrown out into the real world and you will wonder where your childhood went. I know right now it seems like forever until you're an adult and graduating highschool, but you will learn soon enough that it is right around the cornor knocking on the door with it's evil face.

Answer 2

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Answer 3

When you finally meet someone you like, you'll know what to do. All that stuff falls into place when you meet someone you like. You're only 12 so you've got LOTS of time for all that so don't even worry about that right now. There is no perfect age for having a boyfriend but at 12 or 13, that's way way too young! Boys will take up enough time in your life later on so right now, concentrate on school, your family & friends and the boyfriend will come along soon enough. Don't rush growing up! You have get to be young once.

Answer 4

Um...okay, first thing's first. You don't exactly KNOW if you are the perfect match for each other. Sometimes you have to fish and hunt around for a bit, maybe some guy likes you but you only like him so-so, you can still at least try to date him.

Second, you're only 12 (actually, let's say 13). Please, you DON'T need a boyfriend - unless you're REALLY lucky, if you end up with a guy you're age, he's most likely going to be immature, very immature. You really don't want to have to deal with that. Immaturity isn't fun to deal with; he might not take things seriously enough and might only want to have a girlfriend just because he 'thinks it would be cool to have one'. SERIOUSLY - I've heard this from guys who are 16 even! So really, it's best to just wait a few years until you're about 15/16 because boys your age really aren't worth your time.

But...if you really want one - make yourself available more. Go out, hang out with a group of friends (guys and gals!)

Answer 5

In my opinion you should not waste your time looking for a boyfriend, as long as you are being yourself someone will see the amazing person that you are as well as the beauty that is outside but mostly inside of you and he will come to you : )You are young and have a whole life ahead of you, just enjoy life for now!
As to how to know if you guys are the perfect match for each other all I can tell u is that you will know, that guy will just make you feel an amazing feeling that no one else can.

Answer 6

I'm 16, and I've only had one boyfriend. It was short, but kind of spontaneous. We'd been talking for a long time and then it just kind of...developed into something more?
There isnt a set way to get a boyfriend. Flirt, talk with boys, be sweet, but not trampy.
I think that if you're asking this question you might not be ready yet. You're only 12, you have plenty of time! Don't rush it.

Answer 7

At 12, you don't need to worry about too much. If a boy likes you and you like him, you'll do things like hang out together and such and if somewhere down the track he wants to hold your hand, put his arm around you or kiss you, then you could call him a boyfriend! But don't be in any hurry, you have plenty of time to discover such things.

Answer 8

Nope. You need to wait. You will have the answers when you are mature enough and vice versa. People "get a boyfriend" through COMMUNICATION, not just the physical. The same way you make a friend, you make a boyfriend, just with physical and emotional attraction and chemistry thrown in there for good measure.

Answer 9

You're too young for a real boyfriend. When you're an adult, a boyfriend is the person you're dating and sleeping with exclusively. You become boyfriend and girlfriend by agreeing that you will only date and sleep with each other. When you're a little kid, a "boyfriend" is this boy who you giggle over and who giggles over you. And then you get pissed off and you "break up" with him when he looks at another girl. Because when you're not having sex, looking at another girl is the only way to "cheat".

Answer 10

Don't rush into this. for the most part, in my opinion, you need to grow up quite a bit before you do any of this. If you need to ask, then you are too young and immature, so please please stay in your childhood for as long as you can, boys or men, for the most part will turn out to be a great disappointment if you fall in love with the wrong ones or get a boyfriend when you are clearly NOT READY. I have a lot of experience with men. good and bad. So my advice to you is WAIT WAIT WAIT for as long as you can.