Men love to hide their feelings...........WHY?
2007-01-05 13:19:54 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hard to figure, isn't it? I don't think, if I was dating a girl who I really liked more than casually, that I didn't care if they dated, seriously flirted, or were intimate with other men. Whether I said so to her or not, I cared and didn't like it. I grant you that if you didn't know what a man felt about you, maybe he shouldn't get jealous, but then maybe you should have known it,or you did know what he felt and you really wanted to make him jealous with provocative actions. It works both ways, doesn't it? It's called, "all part of the game."
2007-01-05 13:34:41 · answer #1 · answered by Nightwriter21 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"If we'd desire to settle for with the certainty that men have a yearning to have intercourse with as many females as achieveable (biologically speaking)" No, some men fairly do not want this. some do care a pair of lady's sexual historic previous. those that care the main are commonly the comparable ones who does not be promiscuous themselves. There are additionally a lot of fellows obtainable that would desire to care much less.
2016-12-15 16:49:25 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they expect you to read their minds and respect their feelings and know the boundaries of your relationship without having to be told all the time. Men don't nag like women do and tell all their feelings. They expect you to know what choices are wrong and what choices are right. If you have to ask him if he minds, 9 times out of 10 He Does and He thinks you would understand that and Should have no need to ask such questions or put him in a position where he might have to reveal his feelings on the subject if you cared enough and respected him enough.
2007-01-05 13:27:35 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They don't want to feel like they aren't in control. If they admit that you got to them, that is admitting that they don't have total control over their lives. Some of it also has to do with this machismo attitude that many women require their men to have in order to attract them. These same women then complain when the same guy doesn't "open up" to them or treats them like they don't matter.
2007-01-05 13:23:06 · answer #4 · answered by wanderingphotographer 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Guys have to act like they dont care in front of their boys so they dont look "weak" behind love. But usually as soon as its just the two of you he will express his feelings behind closed doors.
2007-01-05 13:25:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
they say it just to make you think they dont care when really they do just being a *** hole .men like to hide there feeling and to show there feeling it makes them look weak.
2007-01-05 13:25:18 · answer #6 · answered by annjilena 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's our way of giving you all the opportunity to rethink the situation and say, "o.k. lets work this thing out for the both of us", In short, we just want to see how you would handle the situation without being told.
2007-01-05 13:27:48 · answer #7 · answered by rtopkat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because we rally do care. And we are not gonna make a big deal about it. Until after the fact!
2007-01-05 13:21:28 · answer #8 · answered by OPTIMUS DIME 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
they dont want to show the have feelings in public but they will sometimes express that to u tho. im a 16 yr old male and i seen that alot.
2007-01-05 13:22:27 · answer #9 · answered by AJL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure. It has to do with ego and a thought "Oh, she can do that and I won't care" but he can't do it and is hurt.
2007-01-05 13:32:20 · answer #10 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋