i have heard that if guys know you dated black guys they wont date you ? and also why are women of color stigmatized *** ghetto or dive wannabe ?
2007-01-05 13:13:12 · 17 answers · asked by fireflykissess 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ya, that can be true it depends on the guy
2007-01-05 13:15:10 · answer #1 · answered by Monet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. If a guy has a problem with the fact that you dated a black guy, you might want to find another guy to date. As far as the stigma, I don't know why it's that way aside from the fact that some women of color really do think they are divas and that couldn't be further from the truth. There's confidence and just bullying and some women (of ALL races) don't know where that line begins or ends.
2007-01-05 21:17:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, huh? and also, it sounds like whoever said that thinks the sterotype about black guys is true. If the sterotype is true, then men of other races would be intimidated, cause there level of thought on how good sex goes is, "The bigger the cock, the better the sex." Fortunately for guys everywhere, that's not true, yet they still don't know it.
2007-01-05 21:19:32 · answer #3 · answered by shai brian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only the superficial ones you dont want to be dating anyway. no matter what race you date, if it isnt yours, someone will always be there to trash you with their opinions. those people are smaller than you and need a little pity because they cant see past the color of someone's skin and what brand of clothing they wear. i'm white, i am aware i'm white, i dont mind that i'm white. girls call me all sorts of wicked things when i carry my babyphat purse and hold hands with my hispanic guy, but you should do whatever you feel is right and not worry about the guys that rate girls according to personal taste in skin color. it shouldnt matter if you are into little green men with purple toenails, if a guy likes you enough, he wont judge you on the little things that dont matter.
2007-01-05 21:20:26 · answer #4 · answered by brooklynn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi there i see your yahoo id is of a black woman are u ? first thing u do not do is to listen to what people tell u cause they envy one another. if u want to dated a black ,Asia ,Hispanic men then do so it's your life not any one else. we chose in life what we want we dream to get what we want not want any body else says . if u are rich the money gets to your head and u lose friends family even at times your children it is better to be poor with a honest job and gain friendship family then to lose it all for vanity. you should be the only one making judgment on your own life cause if u listen to what he said she said you will never be a happy person again i tell u where u stand in life? and as for ghetto women their are lovable women who would help u in any need of problem u have their support is always welcome cause of their kindness in heart. make your choices in life yourself don't let others make it for you or you're head in the wrong direction. if a man does not want to date u cause u went out with another cutlure than he is not worth the time or day of your love.
2007-01-05 22:34:13 · answer #5 · answered by sugarlove_one 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that is pretty much a myth, Also it maybe depends on what area you live in, Some think that it has something to do with the "larger than average" appeal that we are to employ, Some think that we put extra "miles" on the ladies, Not so It's just a matter of people thinking small.
2007-01-05 21:20:31 · answer #6 · answered by rtopkat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly i don't think that is true because i have dated three black guys in the past and i have been with hispanic guys and white guys too. they all know about all the other races that i have been with. It just depends on who you end up talking to.
2007-01-05 21:16:41 · answer #7 · answered by Linda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm good question, I would have to say that yes some guys might think that way. I did at one time untill I met my ex whom I loved greatly. Now it's not even an issue anymore.
2007-01-05 21:15:40 · answer #8 · answered by forgiving_madison 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't believe what you hear.Most times,what you hear,are false,and somethimes true.The ones that are true,most times,they are full of crap.So what if you date black guys! they
are humans too,just like white guys.Guys,who stay like that,just don't pay them any mind.There the ones that going to be dateless.
2007-01-05 21:20:03 · answer #9 · answered by star 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any bloke like that must be very shallow and insecure.
Who cares who the girl has dated, it means nothing as is the past.
2007-01-05 21:16:23 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any guy who thinks like that is not a guy you would want to date anyway.
2007-01-05 21:15:50 · answer #11 · answered by patriciamariegrant 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋