move in together, he says yes, but the thing is we are kind of living together now while at school. we both have our seperate apartment with roommates but i havent even slept at mine because im always at his. when school ends this may i wanted to get an apartment with him but he says its too soon, but we are kind of already living together, so what gives!!!
2007-01-05 13:09:43 · 8 answers · asked by cassandra d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Listen to him, he says it is too soon.
2007-01-05 13:11:34 · answer #1 · answered by Daiquiri Dream 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What gives is that you have slipped into an intimate relationship without (I'll bet) knowing whether your long term goals, intentions and dreams are at all compatible. The more intertwined your lives get, the more difficult it will be to "fix" a major deal-breaker such as one wants kids and the other doesn't, or one wants to get married and the other doesn't. Remember the saying "don't buy a pig in a poke"? There is a very good reason it was in use for so long. You are in the process of making such a purchase.
2007-01-05 21:21:50 · answer #2 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Living together in college and living together outside is different. When you're living together in the same house, both of you have responsibilites that you've never had before. Perhaps your boyfriend isn't ready to accept new responsibility yet. Talk to him about it, and if he still doesn't change his mind, respect his decision and bring it up later.
2007-01-05 21:15:00 · answer #3 · answered by Irene \m/. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to move in with him if he already said it is too soon? Take it for what it is.
2007-01-05 21:12:01 · answer #4 · answered by Sweet Surrender 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think it is to soon , I am turning 21 on wed. and been married since 19.
2007-01-05 21:13:44 · answer #5 · answered by Rebecca W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u guys are falling into the dangerous trap of playing house..
unless u are ready for marriage type commitment...u guys need to live separately...
it maybe tempting to sleep at his apartment every night...but u must learn to maintain ur space from him
2007-01-05 21:12:50 · answer #6 · answered by A Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im against premarital sex and living with sum1 b4 u r married so i would say even u r at his appt, just stop. wait.
2007-01-05 21:13:02 · answer #7 · answered by dancerbabe32506 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its a good thing that you are liveing with him soo whats the problem
2007-01-05 21:13:00 · answer #8 · answered by i love cookies!!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋