gal is interested in another guy after being with me for 1.5 months because this was a guy she couldn't get before (he's a player which had a few diff gals before) and he suddenly told her he has interest. She said the thing which made her try to work things out with me was because I was the nicest bf to her and I treated her right. But I think she broke up with me cause she's intrigued with being with him. We had huge arguments for a whole week on a recent overseas trip together. She tried to blame me for being suspicious and controlling her...when in fact I was suspicious for the right reasons. we had a falling out after our return but then talked it out after a few days to be friends. Yet when I asked her if there's a chance she said not now and don't keep my hopes up for the future. I know it can be a spur of the moment thing when she said it and also because she has that guy on the sidelines now. But do yall think I can win her back and how?
2007-01-05 13:01:46 · 5 answers · asked by Lost 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think you could, but it sounds like you deserve better. You sound like a nice, sweet guy and you shouldn't wait for her. If you really wanna win her back i think there is too ways.
1. Make her jealous. If their is another girl that you like, go out with her and see what happens and in the mean time if you have a shot she will be talking and start to get mad at you cause you aren't giving her all your attention.
2. Act like you do care and be there for her, no matter WHAT!!!! show her that you are the better guy. Seem interested in the things she likes but don't be really obvious in either case.
if you like her enough to want her back, then go for it , what do you have to loose, you have already been dumped, so worst case is is that she just wants to be friends. Don't spend too much time waiting though, you will just keep hurting.
I would say get over it, but i don't know you that well so if you want her back, Go get your woman back!
2007-01-05 13:13:36 · answer #1 · answered by tibbitz02 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beer, beer, beer, and more beer. Then you will go out with your friends and drink more beer. You will forget about her and move on, it will take some time but I promise this to shall pass. You will look back on this as a learning experience and use it to build a healthy relationship later on. Take some time off from dateing seriously and get to be comfortable with your self. Beleive on this I went through it and it works. I was almost at the point where I was fine with one night stands and the ocassional set up or blind date.. Then when I wasn't even looking I met my wife of ten years. Both of us were just looking for a little fun and the comfort of eachothers arms. It was at a funny time in my life, alot of things were changing as age and time has a funny way of doing things like that. My best friend and cousin died and the next thing I knew I was laying the love word on this beautiful creature. Things happen for a reason, look for the sings and be open to all and any possabilities. You know how life changes and you look back and realize that the crap your parents were feeding you turned out to be true? Well it is the same deal here. I went through tis and came out okay, so will you...Good luck and God Bless. Any help or questions, just contact me through my 360 page or profile..
2007-01-05 21:15:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
come on now, a month and a half bro.. Girls come and go. its part of being young... I know you must have liked her alot and all, but you have to think of it as an oppurtunity to find someone else as well. besides if she left you for somebody now shell do it again and again.. your better than that right? keep your head up kid, theres plenty of fish in the sea
2007-01-05 21:09:52 · answer #3 · answered by iwillkillyounow 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
put your mind on something else if you want to forget.however if you want her back romance her buy some flowers call her in tell her you need to see her its very important and tell her how you feel hopefully she will give you a chance tell her you will change and try to be a better person i hope it will work out for you.
2007-01-05 21:07:28 · answer #4 · answered by annjilena 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do ur fav hobby or just do wat i do wen i cant get my mind off of things listen to music and that will make u forget.
2007-01-05 21:06:45 · answer #5 · answered by AJL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋