so i kind of like this guy. we talk everyday at school and we are always flirting with eachother. he asked me out awhile ago but we both didnt know if we were ready to make that commitment. as time went on i decided i really did want to go out with him. i have been giving him hints and he seems to want more too. i think he is nervous because he has never really had a girlfirend before. i dont know what i should do. the other thing holding me back is that my family does not really like him. my sister thinks he is annoying. my parents dont like him because they met him awhile ago and they didnt really like him. they dont really have a reason. i think if they meet him again they could change their mind. but i dont want to go out with a giuy that my family does not like. i really want this to work out between us... hwat should i do?
2007-01-05 12:54:39 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell your family his good qualities.. invite him over and let your parents know you're doing so, so they can be prepared to see him again.
plan something out, like dinner, or a game. where you can all sit together and talk and have your family get to know him.
parents can be very skeptical when it comes to their kids dating, they want to be sure that their kid is with a person who will be good to them, and not try anything funny. so if your family sees this guy more often, they can learn to trust him, and see that he is a good guy, and that he would treat you right. good luck.. ohh and about your sister.. sisters ALWAYS think their siblings friends/boyfriends are annoying. dont worry too much about that :)
2007-01-05 12:59:11 · answer #1 · answered by girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All sisters think that there sisters boyfriends or for that matter any friends are annoying! And maybe once your parents can sit down and talk to him they will see him differently! And no one says he has to be a "boyfriend" right away just go out on a date or two, like a movie or a pizza and see how things go- then you can decide if he is worth the trouble of bringing him home so everyone in the family can get to know him! Good Luck!
2007-01-05 21:00:03 · answer #2 · answered by buffster06 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really like him then go out with him. It's not your families choice it's yours and they'll have to accept that. Don't rush it. Ask him if he's ready to go on a date with you now and if he say he is then go out and if he says he needs more time then give it to him. Rushing it will only destroy it and you don't want that. Just be calm and when the time is right you will know it.
2007-01-05 20:57:28 · answer #3 · answered by Irish Girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would let him know that you are interested in taking it to the next level. Your sister will get over it. Your parents are what you need to worry about. Give them more time around him, they need to get to know him before they can make a judgement.
2007-01-05 20:57:13 · answer #4 · answered by tamlovinlife2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry I've lost the will to live trying to read this question otherwise I would have answered it properly and been more civil.
Hope you sort it out anyway - whatever IT might be.
2007-01-05 20:57:01 · answer #5 · answered by Hello 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You ask him out! You both know you want it! Have fun, and enjoy yourselves!
Wish ya luck!
2007-01-05 20:56:49 · answer #6 · answered by theVisionary 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should ask him out and see what happens........... parents rarely like your partners anyway and they will learn to accept him.
2007-01-05 20:58:47 · answer #7 · answered by rapunzle_123 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, you should tell your parents how you feel about him or try to get them to meet again
2007-01-05 21:03:35 · answer #8 · answered by maria92588 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋