well, my boyfriend and i, when we talk, we imply that we will kiss each other...dont get me wrong, i really want to, its jus that when i try to kiss him, i'm probably gonna screw it up some how. so i would like some pointers! lol that would be really helpful!
thanx!
2007-01-05 12:09:38 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
your guy has to go the whole 90 then you take the 10... also u should fiddle with your keys to indicate your guy that you want to kiss.
2007-01-05 12:12:50 · answer #1 · answered by Caribou 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry it comes natural. Here are some of my favorite and most used tips.
1.Get ready. Kissable lips are soft, smooth, and slightly moist. Are yours? If not, get thee to the drugstore for a carton of lip balm, preferably with SPF.
2. Stop smoking. Even the most vigorous tooth-brushing session in the world can't eradicate the lingering effects of tobacco. Avoid staining your teeth and your breath and take up the much healthier habit of regular make-out sessions.
3. Start slow. It might be tempting to jump into the deep end immediately, with a wide-open mouth and the enthusiasm of a golden retriever. However, you would do much better to start with a teasing touch of the lips. Mouth closed.
4. Increase intensity. Just because you've started slow doesn't mean you can't take it up a notch if the spirit moves you. Pull your partner closer and open your mouth a little. Close your eyes.
5. Develop a rhythm. If you're in this kiss for the long haul, start a rhythm of varying intensity, moving in and out of your partner's mouth for a heart-fluttering mix of tongues and lips. Pull away a second every now and then, give them a chance to want more.
6. Change it up. It's all about variety. Some of your kisses should be tender and soft, some should be frantic and passionate. Keep your partner on his or her toes.
7. Pay attention to your hands. Kissing may be about mouths, but all those free fingers should be having fun too. Hold your partner's hands for a sweet, chaste experience; run them through each other's hair and down each other's backs to kick up the heat.
8. Experiment. Keep your kisses interesting by changing technique, setting, and position. Try nibbling on a bottom lip or introducing an ice cube. Use your imagination.
9. Respond. The most important skill that any good kisser has is the ability to tune in to their partner's reactions. Pay attention to how he or she responds and react accordingly.
10. Repeat. Most people aren't born good kissers, but everyone has tremendous potential. Practice makes perfect, so get in there and make me proud!
Good luck. Don't worry when it will happen it will and let it be fun.
cheers
2007-01-05 12:19:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wow. You must be like totally out of synch with anything natural if you're asking for how to kiss. It just happens naturally. My recommendation is to get outdoors. Go out to the middle of whatever is the most natural local place you have - maybe some park, some hilltop, some beach. Just go and sit there. Be determined to sit there for at least 3 hours. Don't think, don't distract yourself with anything. Just sit there and feel what you feel. Now, get back to the ratrace. You're not out to study how kissing occurs in nature. You're just taking a break away from all the unnnatural stuff that happens in life. Don't be tempted by whatever it may be. Just sit and feel.
2007-01-06 10:32:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you guys haven't kissed yet, I'm sure he knows theirs a reason behind it. The next time you two are together, let him know you want to kiss him and tell him you don't know too much about it. That way he will know to have patience with you and it wont be weird. You cant tell someone how to kiss, it just comes naturally. When the time comes, you'll get it.
2007-01-05 12:14:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. My first kiss kinda sucked but they get better. Ask anyone you're first is FOR SURE not the best. My boyfriend flat out asked me for a kiss last valentine's day. It was quick and awkward but after many many more times of kissing you both will get better and you enjoy them a heck of alot more.
2007-01-05 12:11:34 · answer #5 · answered by K.T. 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first of all, dont be worried that you are going to screw it up, hes going to be just as nervous as you!
my advice is to start slowly, and build your way up...it will eventually come naturally, and you'll get better. you cant really learn how to kiss by reading how to do it, or seeing it in movies. you have to learn for yourself.
dont worry about it, it will come naturally
2007-01-05 12:16:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just do it once and you will feel a lot less nervous.You won't screw it up.
There is really no way to screw it up. Just aim and kiss, do what feels good and relax. Keep your lips soft and not strained and move with his lips.
Good luck.
2007-01-05 12:12:13 · answer #7 · answered by Missy Lyons 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First kisses are always awkward. Mine was terrible!! But it's something you'll look back and giggle about later. Don't even stress it! Just touch lips and see what happens ;)
2007-01-05 12:14:23 · answer #8 · answered by riddlemethisss 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u could try this by kissing urself against a big mirror.it's born natural when u start doing something u'll automatically know n adapt to it immediately.
best wishes n happy new year.
2007-01-05 12:17:45 · answer #9 · answered by robert KS LEE. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just do it. Put your lips on his. Ask yourself if you want to open your mouth, if you like his lips, and then smile, tell him if you like it, if you feel kind of shy, or if you think you feel it's not the right time to move any faster.
2007-01-05 12:20:00 · answer #10 · answered by jlough5 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋