what sould i do ?
2007-01-05 12:03:50 · 17 answers · asked by Jay 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell him i think he has the right to know but get some proof. like take a picture of her with her ex( make sure it has the date on it) and show it to him. then tell him everything you know. i think you have the right to protect your brother from getting hurt.
2007-01-05 12:07:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing! Your brother probably knows what's going on-if not then fill him in. This girl sounds like a slut, not a slot or maybe she is a slot for some guys to make there deposits in. Don't worry, be happy!
2007-01-05 20:08:43 · answer #2 · answered by david s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not sure who your brother's new girl friend is engaged to, sorry.
You can spy on them, take pictures, and video as proof and show it to your brother.... but he may be very defensive about it and hate you for busting his love bubble with her.
If she's really still messing around with her ex, it will eventually come out and he'll find out.
The most you should probably do is voice your concerns in very general terms to your brother. You could say something like "I don't know... her excuse sounds pretty fishy to me... she smelled kinda like her ex's cologne if you ask me..." Just enough said to make him suspicious on his own, but not outright telling him she's cheating on your brother.
2007-01-05 20:10:57 · answer #3 · answered by Mmerobin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you saw it with your own eyes, tell your brother. If not, and it's just rumors, you might tell him that you've heard rumors, but leave it at that and don't try to break them up. That will backfire on you and make him more determined than ever to prove he's not wrong about his decision to be with her and will cause him to distance himself from you. Instead, let him decide what to do, and if he chooses to stay with her, just be his friend and be there for him when the time comes that he needs you.
2007-01-05 20:08:26 · answer #4 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
U should prob tell ur bro b//c u dont want him hurt and if he really likes the girl then tell her to get her life staight and either pick 1 man OR tell her tht u really like her[LIE] lol and dont want there relationship 2 end up messed up!!
2007-01-05 20:07:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him i don,t what to hurt you, but i thought you should know that i don,t think your girl is ready for a commitment or is ready to get marred, because i know your girl is still dating her x boyfriend, here is the proof, show him the proof, but if you don,t have the proof, then it will be hard to prove it, so get a witness or find proof, or let him go some were with you and let him see it in his own eyes,
2007-01-05 20:18:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think u should like really tell your br. becouse u dont whont him to get hurt. i have went through that once were my bf told me he brock up with his x but i was holding his phone couse he was playing football. he got a text & it was from her & she asked him when that night he was going to come over. i waalked through the middle off the game (it was just some friends) & through him his phone & walked off called my mom & got her to come pick me up. so i hope this really helps u
2007-01-05 20:09:25 · answer #7 · answered by taylor f 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he would need proof. You are his brother, just tell him what you've "heard". At least make him aware of it so that he can check it out himself.
2007-01-05 20:06:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
she's a slot? lol u mean s.l.u.t
just let ur bro deal w/ it...he'll sooner or later find out that she's not worth it...good luck 2 ur bro cya
2007-01-05 20:06:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your brother, but make sure you have prove.. take a picture or sumting. be sure that you dont go so harsh on him. dont tell him when its too late, you dont want him to file divorce so early!
2007-01-05 20:07:17 · answer #10 · answered by temari 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋