ok so the kid i like wants me to call him at 8 which is in 10 more mins. iim scared. like i dont no what to talk with him about. likee hes shyy. and i am too. kinda. i guess with people i like but yah. how can i flirt with him over the fone and what shouldi talk to him aboutt. ugh help please.
2007-01-05 11:49:32 · 8 answers · asked by iloveu 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
thanks guys. me and him were on the fone from 7:50ish till 9:30!!! =] we were soo talkiv. it was awesome. and he likes mee.
2007-01-05 14:45:08 · update #1
Don't call him right at 8. Wait at least 6 minutes. If you make it too easy for him he will lose interest. Believe me I'm married, and this fact never changes!
Be yourself. Don't force yourself to flirt, or else it will sound fake. If you really liked the shirt he wore today, tell him, but don't tell him you liked his shirt if you thought it was ugly. Believe it or not guys are not as dumb as they look. (that was a joke fellas)
Ask him how his day went, how his holidays were, be interested in him, his family, his interests. Don't stay on the phone toooooo long though, keep a little mystery. And don't tell him tooooo much about yourself that goes along with the mystery thing.
When you hang up be sure to say "it was great to talk with you" or "i enjoyed hearing from you" or something like that. Then wish him a good weekend so he thinks you have a lot to do over the weekend and might be too busy to call him back. That way He will call You!!
Good luck and laugh!
2007-01-05 11:57:27 · answer #1 · answered by brteimeh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok. First of all, don't call him promptly at eight, that would indicate you exactly remembered when he said to call, and were waiting exactly for that moment. That would be too desperate. Call at about 8:07-8:15.
You say he's shy, but make sure you are the extrovert in this conversation. With you being excited/enthusiastic, that'll help him to be less shy and more at ease when talking to you.
Ask him what he's doing, how his day was, etc.
Get over the small talk first.
Does he know you like him? Does he like you back? Then I would suggest making a move.
Best of luck, update us on how it went.
2007-01-05 11:55:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alright... here listen up.. 1st off most guys don't like talking on the phone. 2nd of all most guys are multitasking while on the phone i.e. xbox, tv, computer... 3rd. the converstaions may be short at first.... 4th nobody likes people who brag.. people like talking about themselves.. so keep him interested. Talk about things he likes. Does he like music? play an instrument? talk about those things. and to flirt just add little things to it. like oh i'll help you. and ha ha ha ha ( giggle giggle) you're cute! talk about things he likes and ask him a lot of questions... then after he answers answer it yourself.. like ask about his parents.... or something. what they do for a living then reply after he replies saying that your parents do so and so. Talk about your day! say wow this happened today.. la al la al or if you are young and in highschool talk about classes or issues at school. There is plenty to talk about ! i've had boyfriends where on average I would talk to them almost 6 hours a day! and they would go nuts and want to talk more!!! you have to keep them on the string, keep them interested and avoid dead silence until you really get to know the person. talk about issues if you get desperate.. politics... views on things.... anything... talk about topics and then tell little stories from your life. don't brag but just talk. it works trust me! and good luck! don't feel defeated if he doesn't want to talk long. the more interested he gets he will want to talk longer the next phone call etc. Also... Don't call him too much! you will sound obsessive!!!!
2007-01-05 11:55:05 · answer #3 · answered by LIZ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no one can tell u how to flirt over the phone lol sorry you can jokingly make fun of him and say ohh i wish you were here with me... sorry best advice i can give
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2007-01-05 11:53:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself. That's who he wants to know. You want to know the real him too, right? The shyness will pass as you get to know each other.
2007-01-05 11:54:31 · answer #5 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start with how his day went then get into more personal questions. trust me wants you start having a good conversation you won't be shy anymore.
2007-01-05 11:52:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just call him and let him talk first and u respond 2 whatever he says . good luck!
2007-01-05 11:53:23 · answer #7 · answered by brunette babe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay first of all don't call him at all. It will make him want you more if you don't call him. If you don't like him then call him.
2007-01-05 12:16:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋