I love my boyfriend,and he said he dose love me so! but he dosen't pay so much attention to me.He is only 20 and I think he is may be too young to know how to treat girls.Is there a way that I teach him how to be more romantic and kind with me? :-(
2007-01-05 11:37:51 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Men always respond to the direct approach. We are VERY different from women in the way we think, act and respond. A woman, typically wants to do things covertly. That won't work with a man. What will work is telling him exactly what you want to do, preferably in the moment, and then praising him after he does it. This is an extremely simple but powerful method of getting almost anything reasonable that you want from any man who gives a crap about you. After the 4th or 5th time you do this with any one thing, it becomes nearly automatic with only occassional need to reinforce it.
Example. Let's say when you are cuddling in bed, watching TV you like it when he strokes your hair. How do you get him to do it? Open your mouth and say, "You know, honey, I'd really enjoy it if you'd stroke my hair now". Show him exactly what you want him to do. After a half hour or so, say, "thanks honey, that was wonderful". After that, the chances are pretty high that he will do that the next time you are cuddling and watching TV together. If not, remind him that is what you like and repeat the process. Very quickly, he will get in the habit of doing this.
The more times you do this, the more he will want to do things like this and seek out opportunities to do new things that you like. Almost all normal men are like this
Definitely, what you don't want to do is be subtle or drop hints about things or worse, be a pain in the *** when he doesn't do something you want. That will almost always result in you being ignored (or replaced).
2007-01-05 11:54:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay im sean 13, i know these type of people he feels as if you have no choice but to be with him show him that if he aint gonna treat you right then you could actually find someone else wanna be friends then email back
2007-01-05 11:47:50 · answer #2 · answered by sean j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be that way towards him but not in an over-bearing way. if he doesn't respond, then give him some space to think about how much he loves you:)
i hope it works out for you.
2007-01-05 11:40:12 · answer #3 · answered by bubbles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him things need to change.And let him know the way you think he treats you.Tell him you don't like it.Tell him you don't treat him that way
2007-01-05 12:14:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why bother find some one who already knows how to treat a girl
2007-01-05 11:41:34 · answer #5 · answered by autumnbrookblue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about it. Be romantic and kind to him. Maybe it'll rub off on him. :) Hope it goes well for you!
2007-01-05 11:42:00 · answer #6 · answered by Weston 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make him realizze tht u neeeeed a better treatment n respect and tht to treat some1 u love, like trash doesn't really sound like icing on a cake.. so.. he needs to change............besides brag abut other guys who treat thr gf greatly.. or however it is u like!
2007-01-05 11:42:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
he need to talk to a real man or try reading a book
2007-01-05 11:41:33 · answer #8 · answered by giggi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHY NOT it could be fun lol
2007-01-05 11:43:26 · answer #9 · answered by Bob 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋