I broke up with my boyfriend. Well my x-boyfriends brother asked me out and I said I dont know. And then the guy who asked you outs brother asked you out what should I do. Because 2 brothers asked me out after I broke up with my boyfriend. And everyone is saying that its k to go out with your xboyfriends brother. But they r both cute and both hot and nice. What schould I do?
2007-01-05 11:37:12 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
As long as you are a lady and they are gentlemen, go ahead go out with them. But if the guys expect you to get sexually active with them, then DO NOT mess with them.
Heck, when I was in high school I went out with this guy named Don who had a brother my age. Dave was a nice kid. We were became friends after I broke up with his brother.
Fast forward twenty-five years, I run into Dave and six months later we got married. Going on six years now.
Hey, those brothers of your former boyfriends might be good date bait after all! IT might take a few years though.....
2007-01-05 11:41:55 · answer #1 · answered by WhatAmI? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In situations that are confusing like these I Use a problem solving method to help you figure things out... Because no matter what anyone says it could be right or wrong. This questions is an ethical question that you need to decide and not let other people decide for you.If I were you i would 1. think of the worst that could happen... alright alright.... So x boyfriend gets super super super pissed never talks to you. maybe x boyfriend gets mad at brother #1 and you end up going out with brother number 2... it messses up their whole family and you will still have to see brother #1 that you rejected and you crushed x boyfriend because you dumped him and you will stil lhav eto see him because they are brothers... alright. so... say you do take this path... well step 2 is to accept it.. now step 3 is to improve on the worst... So alright you have a couple choice now.. you could disregaurd all of them and date someone from a different family? or maybe you could try to explain things to your x boyfriend or talk to them all at once and see if its okay. Just think about this situation get the facts straight and see if its worth it. Nobody can give you a magic answer on if you should or not only you can truley decide. So good luck I hope i helped
2007-01-05 11:42:55 · answer #2 · answered by LIZ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't put yourself in the position of getting passed around by three brothers. I could give you alot of reasons not to and not one reason to do it. Let's leave it at that.
2007-01-05 11:41:09 · answer #3 · answered by Maz69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn't think you should go out with him if you dated the brother especially if you had a sexual relationship with the ex.
2007-01-05 11:40:30 · answer #4 · answered by SexyR 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my friend went out with a boy, and after they broke up, she went our with his brother, and people called her a slut. i m just saying that you nned to be care dating people in the same family. i wouldnt do it.
2007-01-05 11:41:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask them out.
2016-03-28 21:29:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm well its what you want. i mean if you really wanna be with one of the brothers then go for it. just do what you think is right
2007-01-05 11:42:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away its not all in the family
2007-01-05 11:39:26 · answer #8 · answered by troble # one? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Same with me my x boyfriend's brothers both have crushes on me idk what to do but I say go for it and don't try to make your x jealous although that is pretty hard but good luck ! ;)
2014-01-31 15:38:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what do you want to prove? forget them all, move on. meet someone outside of that brotherhood.
2007-01-05 11:40:22 · answer #10 · answered by nd2nonow 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋