well i met this soldier.he fell for me i fell for him.been single for 2 yrs.single mum and protective of them regarding men in my life.however this soldie won me over message me every day.for a few months while in bosnia.he flew over to be with me.my ex kids dad was viloent and tortured me.had the courage 2 walk out after 8 yrs.then this sodlier who promised me the world came into my life.seemed he love me met my kids.told me his plans for our future.now he hasnt contacted me for a month.now it says on his messenger profile thats hes in a relationship with karen,someone i dont know.so upset we were together for a year.i feel devastated.feel so upset.feel used and abused.a soldier thought they and he coukd be trusted.he seemed jealous and said that to many men were coming onto my fp site.asked to put myself of.told me he loved me.how do i get thro the hurt,feel a fool am nearly 31 ,just this has upset me im alone now .have my kids to live for the beautifull main ones in my .
2007-01-05 11:36:41 · 6 answers · asked by gypsy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You feel used and abused, because that's exactly how the guy behaved towards you and your children.
There is absolutely nothing you can do, except move on. I had a similar thing happen to me with a soldier. He still had feelings for his ex and it was she who had the guts to tell me, because she knew how much I cared about him. The best thing I ever did was to forget about him.
I wish you luck and hope you find someone who will treat you with the love and respect you deserve.
2007-01-05 12:33:45 · answer #1 · answered by Colette 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've got no time for someone like that. Move on and forget him, he's not worth worrying about and remember that it is not your fault that he conned you.
The main reason that I am answering your question is to ask you not to let his behaviour, and the behaviour of the children's dad, sour you against men in the future.
We are not all like either of these two losers, in fact very few are. Please keep an open mind, and if you meet someone that you fancy, then don't shut him out. Next time you could be lucky.
2007-01-05 11:56:32 · answer #2 · answered by dawleymouse 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Soldiers are not all respectful,i served in the army along side them!Just look on it as his loss,even though its hard,its better that you've found out what a tit he is now! Like you say you've got your kids their,they are the most important thing,good luck and take care
2007-01-05 11:47:29 · answer #3 · answered by NATALIE W 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it doesnt matter what someone does for a living anyone can do anything it just depends on the type of guy he is.
2007-01-05 11:39:56 · answer #4 · answered by SteelTrap 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unfotunatley babe , we learn by our mistake,s but we also move on quick, so hey doll it,s not all bad , good new,s is the guy for you is out there lookin right now for YOU!!!!!!!!
2007-01-05 11:44:40 · answer #5 · answered by belter777 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
darling soldiers r killers,they kill souls
2007-01-05 11:41:59 · answer #6 · answered by Tara 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋