SHE GOES OUT WITH A GUY A CITY AWAY. I GO TO SCHOOL WITH HER. SHE ONLY LIKES ME BECAUSE I AM ATTRATICE AND ATHLETIC. SHE IS ALSO A REAL FLIRT. SHE TOLD ME SHE LIKES ME. AND I LIKE HER BACK. HELP PLEASE WHAT SHOULD I DO.
2007-01-05 11:33:50 · 13 answers · asked by VARSITYLINEBACKER 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she only likes you because your hot. so if your looking for a purely physical relationship, go for it. but if you want one with love and those kind of emotions, I'd say don't. She'll probably find someone else after she's done with you considering shes a flirt, so only get involved with her if you think you wont be heartbroken when that happens.
2007-01-05 11:38:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, this should help :)
Flirt with her. Start off light, you don't want to come on too strong or else you will look needy and desperate. You want to come off as confident and humorous, not devoid and lonely.
Make sure she has some sort of basic attraction to you. You will find this out if she tries to make body contact with you. Always look at a woman's body language; flipping her hair, leaning in towards you, staring at your lips, or touching your arm or leg are all good signs that she's into you.
Make sure she has a good time whenever she's with you. This is easier than it sounds; just keep things light and positive.
Get her number and spend 10 minutes on the phone with her and make small talk, and ask her out. Say, "Hey, come over to my house and we'll watch that movie you like".
When it's time for her to go home, stare deep into her eyes and say, "Whoa, your hair is so soft," and stare at her lips and back into her eyes. If she's still staring at you then go in and kiss her, no questions asked. If she looks away, say, "Alright, thanks for the good time, take care."
If things don't go so well, that's cool. There are other girls out there. She may seem like "the one", but there are many others that will make you feel the same way.
Try and touch her leg or arm. If she lets you, that's good. If she says something about it then back off and slow down a little. Don't push too hard; just a light touch.
Tips
Don't let her boyfriend know of your intentions. He might try and step up his game a little. Actually, don't tell anyone. Word always gets around.
Show her you care.
Tell her how much you appreciate her friendship.
Use your conscience here, because this guy may really want this girl you're trying to ask out, and if you don't want this kind of thing happening to you, you'd better stay on your feet and be a challenge to her for the rest of your life.
Don't limit yourself to this one girl. There are tons out there. Remember, if you don't shoot you won't hit.
Girls like a guy who is confident and knows what he wants and is also sort of a challenge to her.
Remember that trying to steal a girl away from her boyfriend is a hard task. She must want to be taken away.
Don't be cocky.
It's a BIG help if you know what kind of guy she's going out with. Be everything he isn't, and don't do the unlikable things he does.
2007-01-05 19:36:39 · answer #2 · answered by Boss 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're right, it might be just physical. Unless she breaks it off with her boyfriend, then I'm afraid to say that she's just not that into you. Find someone not so shallow
2007-01-05 19:38:29 · answer #3 · answered by charity16sand 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't date her because the other guy might find out and then...boy u will be in trouble!
2007-01-05 19:36:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you whant a serioud=se relationship and she really like you then shell break up with her man but if you just whant to "handle" then go for it as long as her man doesnt find out
2007-01-05 19:37:59 · answer #5 · answered by DODGER GIRL 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By cutty bubby's but i wanted get in a relationship with her if she will cheat on his man she may cheat on u too.
2007-01-05 19:37:16 · answer #6 · answered by SexyR 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FORGET ABOUT HER. SHE WILL ONLY USE YOU LIKE A TISSUE AND THROW YOU AWAY WITH AS MUCH THOUGHT!
Sorry about the caps, I had to make myself be heard.
2007-01-05 19:36:48 · answer #7 · answered by lyoskowitz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away till shes single...
2007-01-05 19:35:55 · answer #8 · answered by troble # one? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she just wants to have sex with you ... just put yourself in his shoes for a minute would you want her to cheat on you. or tell her if you get rid of him you can have me
2007-01-05 19:36:34 · answer #9 · answered by SteelTrap 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she really likes u she will break up with that guy
2007-01-05 19:36:00 · answer #10 · answered by Tara 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋