i have been in the same boat as you. i gave my boy a second chance i just cant trust him much now and our relationship is on the rocks now and its been over a year since it happens
but i believe every one diserves and second chance but if he doesnt change him self then you should both reconsider the relationship and if he keeps on cheating you should break up with him
2007-01-05 11:36:54
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answered by Anonymous
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You can never trust some one who has lied to you.If they got away with it once they will most likely do it again. As far as cheating, I've always heard that cheaters never win, and if he loses you that will prove he is a loser.Trust is a very important part of a good relationship. Without it there is only hurt anger and resentment. You can do much better.
2007-01-05 11:40:55
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answered by Anonymous
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Well the first time I think MAYBE you did make the right choice. I mean I guess if you love him then MAYBE you should give him another chance. That wasn't that bad of a mistake. The second time... heckkno.
2007-01-05 11:37:02
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answered by Anonymous
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No you did not make the right choice. Yes you made a mistake. Guys do not change. He will cheat again.
2007-01-05 11:35:18
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answered by Anonymous
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Hate to be the bearer of bad news but I do believe the old saying is right - Once a cheat, always a cheat!
Find someone who doesn't ever cheat onyou whether they mean to or not!
2007-01-05 11:37:03
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answered by Anonymous
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Unless you cheated on him and that is what he "owes" you, then you are not even, he cheated on you. If you made the decision to take him back based on some perceived social debt and not on the reasonable assurance that he would not do it again, then you mayhave made a mistake.
2007-01-05 11:39:00
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answered by Maz69 2
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My EX-boyfriend did that. He would even start crying because I said that he cheated on me. I broke up with him. He's aiming for my best friend now, who already has a boyfriend. He got a girlfriend right after he broke up with me, supposidly. Now he's aiming for my best friend...makes me so mad.
So, you did make a mistake. Don't worry, you'll eventually get out of it.
2007-01-05 11:37:51
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answered by Hiperactivo! 1
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some guys do change. i can't tell you if you made a mistake you have to decided if you made the right choice. do YOU think he will cheat again ? if not you made the right choice if so you made the wrong choice.
2007-01-05 11:37:49
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answered by ~*~AmethystMoonBeams~*~ 5
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one .. he cheated... n two.. he lied!.......... the question is y? .. may b he though u wont forgive him.. may b he thought its not imp.. or may b something else!... before giving him a 2nd chance........YOU like reaaaaaaallly Need to ask him these questions!!! .. i mean seriously, chek out whts on his mind, is he serious w/u? .. if its just a casual gf/bf relationship.........thrs is no point of this second chance!!!! .. i mean wht for shud there b another chance??? u both cud find another date .. i suppose!
2007-01-05 11:37:58
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answered by Anonymous
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this is a big mistake because it will happen again, one thing i learned the hard way is people never change. it would be best in anyones situation to leave them. it is hard. but to be honest it is never a mistake to do what you and your hart tell you to do. best of luck
2007-01-05 11:37:50
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answered by Anonymous
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