My girlfreind of a 2 months recently broke up with me. Its been about a week since I've talked to her and just yesterday I asked her to hang out as freinds. I still really like her and wanna get back together with her but she said she just wants to be friends.And I only like wanna see her b/c I miss her like crazy. So what should I say , act like and do when we hang out.
2007-01-05 11:28:48 · 12 answers · asked by Titans 1101 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
agreed with above...just act like yourself or however you've been acting around her for the 2 months you dated. you are probably not going to make her more or less attracted to you by acting a certain way bc she already knows you well enough.
2007-01-05 11:33:29 · answer #1 · answered by bruce_eel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should blow her off. Look. She doesn't want to be with you. Whatever happened happened and you'll just have to find someone else. If you truly do respect her then you'll respect her feelings and move on. Hanging out with her is a bad idea. Your intentions are far from hanging out as friends. You've lied to her, and you're trying to abuse the time that she wants to give you. You need to realise that. You need to call her and say something has come up, then go out with your friends or look at myspace or whatever you do when you're on the prowl.
2007-01-05 19:37:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to stay away from her for a while. She is going to do what she has intended to do It is going to hurt but every time you see her it is going to set you back and you will always hurt. You need to heal first because I think deep down you are hoping she will change her mind and want to get back with you. Don't touchier yourself on a glimpse of hope. Go through the healing process then become friends. Trust me Ive been there a few times. It stinks but I have learned this is what works for me.
2007-01-05 19:41:41 · answer #3 · answered by daydreamer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me on this one. Find a new friend. I wasted a substantial portion of my youth on a girl that dumped me and then wanted to be just friends. In the long run you get hurt a lot as she continues dating other people, and they really do mean it when they say that all they want is to be just friends. I've never had one return to me yet. Best of luck in whatever you decide to do.
2007-01-05 19:32:11 · answer #4 · answered by av8r_jim84 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude im goin through the same thing, BUT dont hang out with her as friends, it will drive you NUTS.. no matter how strong you feel about this girl, the only thing to do is get over her by 1) not contacting her at all (no phone calls, no emails, no msn) and tryna distract yourself, either with friends or some new girll.. but you will just frustrate yourself if you keep hanging around her.. sorry but its the truth
2007-01-05 19:33:12 · answer #5 · answered by burnaby_sk8rboy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel. Just hang out with her as friends and move on and find someone else to date.The Right person is still out there for you.You don't know yet it .
2007-01-05 19:31:35 · answer #6 · answered by Just Looking 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is true that girls (or guys) want what they can't have. If you act like you don't care as much as you actually do, but don't be a jerk about it, it will make her realize how much she misses you. Don't make yourself available to her everytime she calls.
2007-01-05 19:33:20 · answer #7 · answered by Chelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look if she doesnt want to b more than frnds.. i think u need to get over it n move on.. its HARD but not IMPOSSIBLE!!... its imp to respect other ppl's opinions .. n in this case this other person is a person u really like.. hey who knws may b she will come bak to u.. if she finds u to awfully tht nice a guy she shud not b w/out!!
2007-01-05 19:34:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you said you'll hang out just as friends you have to keep your word.
2007-01-05 19:32:26 · answer #9 · answered by lalanoesbest 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what a way to bring in the new year
2007-01-05 19:35:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋