I dated this guy for 6 months (amazing relationship while i lived in the same state) & then I moved away for 9 months to another state. Recently (3.5 months ago) I came back & we've been hanging out ever since - however, not dating. I want to get back together with him but I get the vibe he doesn't want to. However, mixed in with all these "I don't want to date you" vibes, I feel he is constantly giving me very confusing signs and I don't know what he means when he says some of it. For example, the other day I was crying about something & he said I would make a great mother. How does crying equate to being a great mother? (I grew up with out a mother so maybe all mothers cry a lot?) Then he always brings up things about a future wife. Is he dropping hints about what he wants in a wife? Does he view me as a possible future wife? Or is he just entering that stage where that stuff is becoming important to him? Why is he saying this mother/wife stuff to me if he isn't dating me?
2007-01-05 11:14:02 · 5 answers · asked by Beijaospratodos 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are his friend. He is at the stage and you remind him, but it doesn't mean that he is thinking of you as his wife.
But don't fret. You can still win him back. Be good to him. Respect him and treat him well. Make him feel important to you. And don't let him see you looking shabby, ever. Always look good to him. Guys are visual. The sexier you look, the more interested he'll be.
(Crying equates to being a good mother because it means that you are a caring person. Why were you crying? That probably has something to do with it.)
2007-01-05 11:16:23 · answer #1 · answered by SmartAlex 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First thing, don't rely on 'vibes', you could be totally wrong about them.
What you do need to do, is talk to him, tell him what you are feeling and see if he feels the same way about you.
Although mother's have many reasons to cry, raising children is a really tough job, crying does not make a good mother. Caring for the child, loving the child, does.
So it's time for a talk, to see where you stand with him, instead of guessing.
2007-01-05 19:19:44 · answer #2 · answered by johnb693 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could just be comfterble with telling you things like that, or he could be hinting around..........you'll have to suck it up and ask him.
excuse spelling :)
2007-01-05 19:20:04 · answer #3 · answered by Tree 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he likes someone else
2007-01-05 19:16:55 · answer #4 · answered by Specter7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn't read your question.
2007-01-05 19:16:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋