I got a divorce @ age 52...I am in love with a very sexy and beautiful woman age 47...She is now finalizing a divorce of her own..this is my 1st divorce and her 2nd...I am absolutely in love with this woman...She just went to see her 95 yr old grandma in Florida..this was my Xmas gift(round trip flight) for her...why would she turn her phone off on the man she says she loves.She will be home Sunday...and I will be picking her up..She is what I sometimes call a flirtologist..she likes attention but I trust her. Could it be she just want's to have fun without me calling her...Can I be to much in love with her? I sometimes worry about another man wooing her more and taking her away from me. Why am I so insecure Why does she play games with me I just want to love her and her love me. How do I know if she is a keeper or just going to hurt me. I am a loyal..honest harworking,, hopeless romantic halfway goodlooking guy, wanting 1 woman to love and have love companionship she is my dream girl
2007-01-05 11:12:50 · 4 answers · asked by rickmeister 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
YES your heart can hurt if you are rear in love with this person.
go for it becaues you are NVRER to old to be in love with someone.
2007-01-05 11:19:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it Hurst's because the love you have doesn't feel right and you want it to. Sounds like she leaves you with insecure feelings of love. Love isn't supposed to hurt. You probably do love her so much that you may be scared of the thought of loosing her. You need to find a healthy balance some how or you may scare her away or she could take advantage of you. Sounds like you want as much as you are giving and she isn't giving you just that.You need to stop loving her so much and love yourself more right now. Evaluate yourself and find out why you love this woman as much as you do? And be honest with yourself.....Then re evaluate her and maybe you will see a better picture on how you really feel.
2007-01-05 11:30:10 · answer #2 · answered by daydreamer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can never really know. Only time will tell.
You should definitely take it slow because anybody just coming out of a divorce is usually either too eager to committ to a new relationship, or they want the security of someone devoted to them, but are not truly ready to tie themselves back down.
2007-01-05 11:17:20 · answer #3 · answered by allissahottie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she's embarrassed to say "I love you more"NO I love you more stuff in front of grandma.
2007-01-05 11:17:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋