the phone calls i recieve are from my ex-bf or dudes who like me or dudes i use to talk to before him......me and my bf jus startd going 2gether n december....
2007-01-05 11:08:50 · 17 answers · asked by Ask n U shall Receive 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well he doesnt have a cell phone...n if he did n grls were calln him i wouldnt care cuz he's wit me n not them....he told me he trust me n i trust him...i jus dnt have alot of female friends but alot of male friends n i told him that b4 we startd dating...
2007-01-05 11:23:40 · update #1
You have a right not to answer you phone if you do not want to. Your boyfriend just might be a little jealouse or should i say curious about who you are talking to. He might be asking himself " Oh why cant she answer the phone when I am around." I think he is reading to much into your actions. I think he is just confused. You need to just talk to him and let him know where you are coming from. If he continues to not understand then answer the phone one day when hes with you and hell see what you are talking about when you say that you dont want to answer the phone. I hope my advice helps you!
2007-01-05 11:14:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably is the jealous type. Been there done that. If you are serious about this guy then out of respect you should ask the other guys not to call you anymore. If you aren't serious then tell him that you are allowed to have friends just like he is. If he can't handle you having relationships with other men and doesn't trust you this early on in the relationship then it would probably be best for YOU to end it with him and find another man who will respect and trust you. Good luck!
2007-01-05 19:15:41 · answer #2 · answered by ashleighshea1982 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
but he has a right because who wouldn't you have other dudes who like u calling ur phone saying who knows what and he should care since he is ur boo so what u been with him since december .. okay let's turn this around what if he said the same thing you telling us but relatting to him in a boy's view what would you think or say about that but 2's question {Do he trust you to believe you not cheating on him with the dudes calling your phone or Is it just he is just stress out cause you have been recieving tthese calls lately.} and email me
2007-01-05 19:17:51 · answer #3 · answered by MIZZAMERICAOF2007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well how would u feel if you were with him and his phone kept ringing and u found out that the people callin him were his ex's or girls that like him. It isnt right, especailly if it is right in front of him. Do you not want to be in a relationship? Or do u like the attention? It doesnt matter how long u have been in a relationship, it is not right to talk to other guys who like you, when your bf knows that the only thing they want is to get with you!
2007-01-05 19:13:15 · answer #4 · answered by ReRe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is prolly insecure just let him know that your with him for a reason and that u broke up with your ex bffs. if he really feels that
insecure it may not be a good thing that your with him cause he might start being controling, but u be the judge of that to answer your question he really dont have the right to be mad but he does have the right to be annoyed be may think hes going to loose you.
2007-01-05 19:14:10 · answer #5 · answered by nodaybuttoday 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's why he's mad - cause he can tell that it must be another guy calling since you wont answer in front of him. How would you feel if the tables were turned and his ex and other girls were calling him.
2007-01-05 19:12:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if this is ccausing u problems and u care about ur b/f try and elimate the problem by getting ur number changed and not giving it out but jus to close trust worthy friends..simple as that
2007-01-05 19:11:26 · answer #7 · answered by Engineering Tech 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u dont want him mad n e more put ur phone on silent when ur with him...it wont ring and every 1 will be happy...just answer the calls later when ur not wit ur bf or something.
2007-01-05 19:14:23 · answer #8 · answered by Blue Panda 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he really has no right to be mad but on the other hand you're making it look as if u have something to hide. so i understand both sides. just try answering and cutting the convo real short. don't lead anybody on.
2007-01-05 19:12:34 · answer #9 · answered by JLo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably thinks you're not answering the phone because you don't want him to know who you're talking to and what you're saying. You should talk to him about it. Tell him he has no need to worry about you messing around; you're not answering the phone because those people aren't your first priority while you're with him.
2007-01-05 19:14:55 · answer #10 · answered by miss_lady404 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋