If in a relationship for 1 year and cheated a couple of times in the begining and a couple of times a couple of months ago should you tell your partner. Or just let it go and never do it again
2007-01-05 11:04:48 · 24 answers · asked by JLo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hi,
What good do you possibly imagine it would do to tell your partner? Cheating was one mistake and injury that you inflected on yourself and you have to live with it.
Do you think rubbing your partners nose in it and hurting them is going to accomplish anything?
You answered your own question in your last sentence. I am betting you don't have guts enough to not cheat again. Immature little people cheat, . . . .good people honor their relationship. . .to the end.
Do yourself and your partner a big favor and prove me wrong.
You keep on and you will get caught and then we can listen to you whine because you got dumped if you're lucky, as there have been cases where the cheating was stopped permanently with the help of a gun.
Darryl S.
2007-01-05 11:19:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously there is something missing in your relationship, because you keep on doing it. And it doesn't really seem like u can stop. It is not fair to practically lead the person your in a relationship with in believing they have a good and faithful partner. Be honest with them, because it all surfaces in the end anyway. It is better that u come out and say it then them finding out by someone else.
2007-01-05 11:09:42 · answer #2 · answered by ReRe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you tell the person that you cheated on. There are two reasons" 1) you will always know what you did, it is that "Tell Tell Heart" thing, and 2) what are you going to do if your partner finds out on their own. They are going to be really upset then.
2007-01-05 11:10:04 · answer #3 · answered by Eris 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them,everyone has the right to be informed. With all the things that go on now a days because of sexually transmitted diseases,people need to know if they could have possibly been exposed to something,because of a partners infedelities.
Tell them,and move on.
2007-01-05 11:11:29 · answer #4 · answered by Ellie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THIS IS WHAT U DO READ CAREFULLY U TELL HER BECAUSE IF U WERE IN THE OTHER PERSON SEAT U WOULD WANT THEM TO TELL U BECAUSE ITS LIKELY UR GONNA CHEAT AGAIN SINCE U DID IT SO MANY TIMES BUT IF U LOVE THIS PERSON I HOPE U WILL STOP CHEATING
2007-01-05 11:09:19 · answer #5 · answered by CHALEAH J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it really depends on how serious u are about this person but if someone tht doesnt particularly like u tells this person then they will be even more mad then if u just told them in the first place
2007-01-05 11:15:52 · answer #6 · answered by Mrs. Jasper Hale 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jLO... well it is different for every one...I'd like to know... from him cos... I don't wanna hear it from a friend or some ,one.. and don't wanna have to ask him...
But i think love should be built on trust... that is how you make it last... But...if you are not doing this for real love...and feelings...I don't know.. BUT IF You love your partner... hell him/her .... what she /he decides to do... after that...you have to take as it comes.
2007-01-05 11:11:50 · answer #7 · answered by sam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it go and never do again. Otherwise it will ruin your relationship.
2007-01-05 11:07:45 · answer #8 · answered by Tom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I cheated on a test in high school. I got an A.
2007-01-05 11:06:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
i think that you should definitely tell if it absolutely drives you insane or if someone else gets hurt if you don't tell the truth. no one should be hurt from your mistakes. or just fix your relationship your own way
2007-01-05 11:09:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋