or lets going lower a 18 year old dating a 30 year old,,,, same age differnce, and they get along great they can talk for hours and hours and hours and its been more then a year since they have been seeing each other,,, do you think its ok for them to be dating because of there age differnce though?
2007-01-05 10:56:31 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh hell ya! As long as she's mature, not some prissy bimbo, that has no common sense.
Then by all means, I say for them to go for it. Age isn't really a big deal anymore... Unless it's jailbate
2007-01-05 10:58:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Geez if they get along great whats the problem. Don't look at the age look at how well they get along with each other.
Are both willing to compromise and get to know each other more.
Why think there is something wrong with it just because they get along so great. IT sounds fantastic and what a great relationship if that is the way it is happening For over a year and all is good and no disagreements or disagreements worked out well.
Geez this is a great thing ... What many people wish for and want in their whole lifetime only happen once in a great while
what could possibly be wrong with it.
If it works it works no matter what the age.
Who cares about the age I am so happy for them you have no idea.
I hope it goes on
2007-01-05 12:20:16 · answer #2 · answered by Spirit_Rain_3-SunShineAries 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The legal thing is out of the way... so as long as the younger doesn't mind dating someone old enough to be an aunt or an uncle....go ahead. The problem may lie in maturity later on. An 18 year old may be thinking about clubbing and cruising, and a 30 year old is thinking about bills and work. Maybe....
2007-01-05 11:01:11 · answer #3 · answered by unclewill67 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age is nothing but a number, I have a close friend who is actually engaged at 32 to a 19 year old who he's been with for about 2 years.
2007-01-05 10:59:01 · answer #4 · answered by forgiving_madison 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was 22 I dating at 36 year old. We dated for about nine months. I did not think it was a big deal at the time but looking back now that I am 37 I don't think it would be a good idea.
2007-01-05 11:03:32 · answer #5 · answered by applecrisp 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on a variety of things like maturity from the younger party and the like. But personally, I don't think it's a problem, age is but a number. I was 16 when I met my husband and he was 30 at the time. Still with him nearly 6 years on.
2007-01-05 11:00:23 · answer #6 · answered by tinkerbell2202 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had enough trouble with the 32/20... 30/18 is a definite thumbs down. ok twelve years won't mean much when the younger is over 25, but otherwise it is a bit much. Also... if it lasts and they decide to get married (or whatever)... when she's going into her sexual "prime", he'll be over 50... which is a known down slope for male sexuality... could be a problem.
2007-01-05 11:21:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Umm.. honestly, first thing that comes to mind is "Eww..."
But being reasonable, if they love eachother it is okay, I guess. I'm obviously not a big fan of the big 10+ year difference relationship. But that's just me. (sort of makes me think of it as a 13 year old dating a 1 year old. ^o^)
Make sure that this guy likes this girl for her, though. And that she still likes him and he still likes her. Because it could change over time.
2007-01-05 11:00:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ppl say for love age doesnt matter... but i say don't b an emotional foool.. thrs one point in life whr things hav to b taken practically!!.. u get over the whole cutie, honey stuff n get down to minding ur own business and at tht time, age makes heck a lot of difference... thrs a difference in the level of understanding, in maturity, in expectations... bcoz u both r standing at different places in life, looking forward to diff thngs.. all of which gets worse bcoz of the generation u were born n brought up with.... ur significant other hangs arround w/ppl who think n act differently and u r the only odd one out!............... its one thng to being loved n cared for.. but its another thng to realize tht ur partner is really frm a different generation n no matter how much u compromise.. satisfaction is lacking somewhr somehow!... so date her n forget about it.. (if she also wants the same thng) .. n if not.. move to the next one!
2007-01-05 11:20:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd have to laugh. I wonder why a 32 year old man can't get a woman his own age- ego issues, insecurity, immaturity perhaps. An 18 year old is a teenager. Men who dig teenagers are creepy.
2007-01-05 10:58:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋