I need to break it off with the one person who I'm totally head over heels for. It can't work. There is the age difference 23 vs. 30
plus I'm previously committed. My heart is breaking I don't want it to end. What should I do? Also I've been told lately by other people this person is a liar, now I feel like I should end it.
2007-01-05 10:49:09 · 4 answers · asked by Tab 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am in a similar situation. I am in love with this guy but I'm pretty sure it's never going to work. I love spending time with him though and I just don't want to end it.
I know I just have to keep my long-term goals in mind. I want to be married within a few years and it doesn't seem like it's going to happen with him. I know I need to break it off and the sooner the better.
Just focus on your long-term goals, and if others say he's a liar, ask yourself if you agree with them. If the answer is yes, you definitely need to let him go even though it will be hard.
2007-01-05 10:58:24 · answer #1 · answered by ahhihello 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i tell you what is not easy to make a decision for both of them are cares about you but if you ready to have a long term commitment and your ready to be him for better or worst choose the person who is really sencere to you and know how to do his responsible. sometimes a person who is a liar is good coz you can teach him how to tell the truth but the person who is not a liar he think that his always perfect and once he say black you can not change other color anymore and that's the problem. so you very careful when you choose any of them and make sure that he is the one and you will never regret your decision. good luck :)
2007-01-05 18:59:39 · answer #2 · answered by luvu4ever14344 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you have to be honest with yourself. Why do you really want to break it off. Did he p*** you off and you want to get even, because of what your friends say, because you are committed? The seven years wasn't enough to not start why is it now. Has he lied to you? If you are really comitted, weren't you lieing ti him. Sort it out and do whatever---but do it for the right reason.
2007-01-05 18:56:50 · answer #3 · answered by ttpawpaw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age difference, doesn't matter. If you had a terminal illness and knew you'd die in a week... which person would you want around you the most? Answer that, and then act accordingly.
2007-01-05 18:52:40 · answer #4 · answered by sundeevah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋